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- ^; L6 k L/ L9 nHow to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.3 k$ L5 H8 y* Y, E3 O& i0 k" M; B
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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Fine.* Z4 Y5 q: U1 ~; \
1 X! x* y8 y/ d h; c- VThis is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.; a4 r$ l' P6 m+ T
" w4 K A: k( e3 {+ |+ XNot bad.4 g) i+ \" V* q d2 U8 l
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".# V7 g) ^/ m1 [- B5 _: z4 p7 k
0 q7 M n( m5 e$ d9 [# R9 NFine, thanks.7 E$ x: \3 E+ @6 A
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.4 F5 l9 z+ d* A
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Very well, thanks.
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.4 _& ~" K, \! K) J8 p# J+ A
2 a2 t1 _( Z6 d0 l, RPretty good.
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+ }3 R/ l8 _' I. k" AIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.
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Great! How are you doing?
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.& u4 J( f- z, T( \: v) s
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I'm hanging in there.' B, H) ~5 l. _5 r6 r0 E# z: R
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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I've been better.
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' [3 r0 u3 o( f4 d% C; G1 RPeople usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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# y3 w/ `8 W( m4 I1 w5 dA: How are you?. t/ U( A) @) D% D
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) x6 F: I$ d) A. G' SB: I just found out that I'm being laid off.0 ~& F, [9 g8 P: C8 u7 Y
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How's it going?
, h0 Q1 r5 ~$ VThis question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?". ~' |0 m$ f5 |# @) Y; F r
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It's going well. 5 D" e: ]# ~2 t1 m
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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! E9 ?. l- g# S9 hNothing much.& I. {4 V, d4 _- M/ S
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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Not a lot.
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.. ?- w2 [. F5 o8 @, S
6 P' F h4 E5 i4 c+ A' m& |0 z" CNothing.
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( ~- _9 x5 c7 d: K) A) ]3 S5 wThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.4 n/ N5 `0 m$ r; w$ \" K$ d; W
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Oh, just the usual.1 V8 b$ f4 U' U" P8 j) S" r* ?
0 Z; d9 n; g2 n. ?) ~. zAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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0 Y+ {- V9 f" _' h7 q" WJust the same old same old. o5 A+ g/ Z3 ^* f4 f0 b1 N
' A& n. g& _1 LThis phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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( L1 @" N' o2 T2 C7 \Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!+ v h4 w! |6 q6 ]
( Z6 ]$ y6 |' u; O2 ?4 C6 I" @+ E( n, wYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.
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