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if there is no evidence you lend the money, there is no chance to get it back even you goes to court./ X6 p+ m5 v1 x/ }8 k; r8 F
Google small court.
' x* \ i% h* l) K0 V0 ?/ ~3 HThink this way, when a friend ask money from you, it means immediate needs like grocery and rent. without the $4000, he might have to sleep on the street. For you, with out the $4000, you only need to cancel a vacation trip. Money is like water, always tries to flow from high position to low position. % |& M N# M' [) q/ p
If a thief or a friend took your money even though you have some guard, it only means he wants that money more intensively than you do. 7 q2 p/ V! n- f8 ]- H
As the money already lost, if you still worry about that, you loss your peace of mind, that is double-lost. Let go will be better for your health. Think it as a wedding gift, a funeral gift, new born baby gifts, kid's graduation gifts for that friend in next 20 years./ Y5 b6 s0 s9 ^1 z9 `/ {+ x2 R
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