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本帖最后由 ali 于 2013-9-6 20:39 编辑 : X; a V5 I( \' B: }
兰芷 发表于 2013-9-6 20:15 " e/ P4 Q2 d$ B; a1 i
老外可能是这么想的,中国人大多不会这么想哦 ! d+ s( P' f0 t4 i6 }' [/ \
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There is something to do with the society where the kid grows up. In China, since the kid has a chance to go back to the other parent and grandparents on the other parent side and is 'educated' by relatives, other neighbours and so on, the kid might think a biological parent is more important and beloved than a step parent. But here in Canada, not many people surrounding the kid would like to say so and neither does the kid have much chance to stay with relatives.
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In your friend's case, if she is the only legal guardian, this is the best! Plus, the little kid is just 2 years old, the kid will forget everything that happen during her first four or five years.6 o% p+ t9 ~7 g) h
& V' Y8 M5 a" V! O6 T( |' ~( f0 hA reminder: If your friend's ex-husband is also a legal guardian, the court order may not allow your friend together with her daughter to move to another city far away from Vancouver without the approval from her ex-husband because it may stop the kid's father from seeing the kid regularly. |
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