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本帖最后由 ali 于 2013-9-6 20:39 编辑 9 S$ W% k5 k" `' [$ y) f9 |8 o
兰芷 发表于 2013-9-6 20:15 7 G/ W9 P4 U) ?* e( Z5 T
老外可能是这么想的,中国人大多不会这么想哦 & L6 x8 k( r6 ^2 _) Z& S3 y4 f
3 O+ W; [6 y6 @0 QThere is something to do with the society where the kid grows up. In China, since the kid has a chance to go back to the other parent and grandparents on the other parent side and is 'educated' by relatives, other neighbours and so on, the kid might think a biological parent is more important and beloved than a step parent. But here in Canada, not many people surrounding the kid would like to say so and neither does the kid have much chance to stay with relatives.
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In your friend's case, if she is the only legal guardian, this is the best! Plus, the little kid is just 2 years old, the kid will forget everything that happen during her first four or five years.
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4 T- d! e' e5 VA reminder: If your friend's ex-husband is also a legal guardian, the court order may not allow your friend together with her daughter to move to another city far away from Vancouver without the approval from her ex-husband because it may stop the kid's father from seeing the kid regularly. |
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