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本帖最后由 ali 于 2013-9-6 20:39 编辑 & J* B+ x" M/ e4 E0 ^
兰芷 发表于 2013-9-6 20:15 
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There is something to do with the society where the kid grows up. In China, since the kid has a chance to go back to the other parent and grandparents on the other parent side and is 'educated' by relatives, other neighbours and so on, the kid might think a biological parent is more important and beloved than a step parent. But here in Canada, not many people surrounding the kid would like to say so and neither does the kid have much chance to stay with relatives.
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* m9 C- C, o9 H4 O6 hIn your friend's case, if she is the only legal guardian, this is the best! Plus, the little kid is just 2 years old, the kid will forget everything that happen during her first four or five years.% W2 Z6 h1 ~6 x2 Y5 o9 g) _& `
* H+ I4 h; A8 I% J& ~$ hA reminder: If your friend's ex-husband is also a legal guardian, the court order may not allow your friend together with her daughter to move to another city far away from Vancouver without the approval from her ex-husband because it may stop the kid's father from seeing the kid regularly. |
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