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本帖最后由 SheJing 于 2013-2-6 13:24 编辑
6 q1 R5 |) W2 p4 R三思 发表于 2013-2-6 12:26 . B$ E* q- J0 ~' p- y* Y
答案不是更显然了吗? 成功的成因很多,你不需要名牌大学成功,但是名牌大学的成功率会更高些,我们做家长 ... 5 Y; n, [ M% A( c3 U6 Y* j
" s4 W- e. m4 p3 s% b8 w) `名牌大学的成功率会更高些. I agree. A university degree is often touted as being a prerequisite to a good life and a high income. Thanks again for stating the obvious.
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) f# S% d# d: s( q6 C$ k2 h8 h我们做家长的,当然希望孩子冲着高概率去了。Damn right you can only HOPE. At late teens they'll make their own decisions. Your time of running their lives is over. ; @/ o9 ]5 {* W6 J# _$ D
: H. E( F9 V4 T: b0 OMy points are:
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- Academic performance is merely an indicator of potential for success.
$ K- v, p" j6 W. W; ]- Academic performance does not indicate insured success., y( b r K& q, B$ m
- Academic performance is not the only indicator for success.
9 Y$ A. |- j5 ]+ g- 名牌大学 is only helpful if they've got what it takes to survive - talent and dedication wise. Otherwise they will just crash and burn and leave with a lowered self-esteem.
$ F# u8 {( t- m) U4 S5 }- Parents don't have the right to decide or to mislead their children on whether they want a high profile/stressful life, or a mediocre/peaceful life. If the parents want to show off or to compare, use house, cars, jobs, penis size, anything. Just not your children.
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