FrankSoccer 发表于 2012-10-17 14:57 ' w$ u' ]$ b0 v" W: Y7 D. Y( u+ {
Knew a person could help but she is too busy. I'll discuss this issue with her tonight and see if sh ...
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谢谢您,我会等您的答复,希望我的室友有这样的幸运可以得到专业人士哪怕只言片语的点拨,给她带去力量,帮她走过人生难关。我反正是能说的都说了,但或许能力有限,也许没有击到要害吧,每次尝试都挺有挫败感,感觉并没有走到她的内心里。她曾经开玩笑跟我形容说她大概心的一个动脉被一颗子弹堵住了,她想拔出来可是无能为力,我特别懂这种感觉,但无奈我没有能力做那个可以一语击破她内心子弹的医生。
步步谨慎 发表于 2012-10-17 09:05 ' c" ?7 Y& f5 Y$ f: `" A请楼主一定要仔细看我下面的话。 2 ?! s0 x9 i$ Z' A$ t T 9 L. S1 \1 q3 x第一, 你自己要知道,想帮助她,不是一天两天的事。要付出的时间精力和 ...
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第三点不对。 忧郁症(depression)不等于妄想症(schizophrenia), 忧郁症主要是情绪持续的低落,和幻想,幻听等完全没有连接。有些人得忧郁症是因为身体本身的问题,可能大脑某些物质缺乏/平衡破坏了,有时候维他命d不够也会,所以看医生起码可以做一些检查看看是不是这样,如果是的话可能吃药就可以很好解决了。如果不是这样可能就要靠长时间的心理辅导,这种就比较困难一些了。如果lz朋友不肯看心理医生或许可以劝她去做身体检查?可以和家庭医生要求检查维他命d,其他的那些检查我就不知道名字了。
Discussed with her briefly this morning. 8 p3 B8 S; n) e8 h# ~5 t/ {8 S* G' ~
She suggested that your friend should see her family doctor first. There are two reasons for this: one, family doctors treat patients with depression all the time; and two, we need a family doctor to refer us to a specialist. Also, she said that your friend actually does not need to see a specialist now, unless it is a Psychiatric problem, because family doctors probably can handle it well.7 w* h0 }5 e& B8 |- [* M
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Hope this help.