买外一个叫做sympathy card 写上: Dear Susan. I am so sorry for your loss. You and John were both so close to me and my family. Please feel free to let me know if I can help with anything. Take care. Love Sam. 7 O4 e1 A! U7 k: L . L/ ~& j, h( p5 h8 `$ w% I. ^不送钱,鲜花一般送在入土的墓地里。) X1 F* T" J6 o* z