不知道。但是感觉,他们太一惊一诈的了,我常看一些电视,她们对于朋友间衣貌变化一点,就大呼"OH MY GOD,LOOK YOU!OH MY GOD~~~....我感觉一般般....不知道是她们的习惯还是....1 c: d3 U' ^2 n) s
总之在这里,在西人眼里好像没有丑.....都是NICE,NICE...
Agree! I think they just try to be nice too.4 g' E. Z" H2 N3 n
我觉得这只是文化习惯不同而已,不至于升级到虚伪的程度,难道你被别人当面恶评一番就觉得人家真诚了吗,还是心理会觉得更不舒服了呢。就算是有人违心的夸奖你不也只是为了维持表面的礼貌吗,比无视你要好吧。8 O5 m! ^, O7 i9 S* G
至于那些眼睛没看着你就夸奖你的人,只能说明他们根本没有掌握夸奖别人的艺术,亟待提高水平。 & s, V4 p0 Y4 H% L$ R善于观察发现他人的优点并及时夸奖真的是一门大家都该掌握的艺术,不仅让和你打交道的人愉快,自己也是最大的受益者。我也正在有意识地努力提高这方面的技巧。
i think they just want to be nice $ {2 p; j& h% A* E' ^, usorry12022000 发表于 2010-3-17 22:25
7 @8 x* b; _2 r' C& Y5 m( d e& P, w* W3 w( [! N- _% gGood explanation. 6 J" [7 c' O3 ~6 H
maybe i shouldn't have used "虚伪". but now i know they probably didn't mean it.
Good explanation. " Z7 G& _1 a/ y* l. F. @% Q' k
maybe i shouldn't have used "虚伪". but now i know they probably didn't mean it. . d4 q9 H' C6 e1 T# e; H熊猫阿宝 发表于 2010-3-18 11:52