Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes
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' s* L8 R! y* [7 o7 t% g& KWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
5 j8 z1 b3 _9 y4 U" s" V, a: ETry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.

3 P' D6 D' k- H4 _2 ~3 R2.        Speak up when she’s good
If you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.

; j2 X; i5 ]0 `( x; T3.        Stay one step ahead
Limit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
From no to yes

While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

! v! m6 I( v0 T3 l0 u7 @6 ?9 |; k1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
4 e, i1 k4 q6 G3 HTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

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柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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