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I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro. # q5 [6 _- ?2 ]
He has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money
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The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you 4 k. y$ u9 B! D
why I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young " |- o2 G: k1 _3 T8 R
man who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable
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7 d; M. H: X2 K5 F) Bhorses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted.
. P8 D% [ ~$ r1 O9 T6 c! xWhen he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted
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'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday
1 D+ ~3 v( s" O% J2 n: {3 q, rowning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even
. H O" u R, B$ Ndrew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings,
& u, y: @$ ~2 `$ P/ ithe stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot
, n& N- w. Q4 [9 z. J( L$ Mhouse that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch. / U- }: ^1 G, [8 q! i# h* v: N
! s( J$ S; E' B! |'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he 6 ]: A) Y3 @. ]; y8 @5 a
handed it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back.
) W9 u! c5 Q' U V' Z3 ROn the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after
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) H: x F! f; D" t: L'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked,
1 {( V& \0 t- S* \) ``Why did I receive an F?'
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2 N+ K/ h, f, f'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you. 4 f- I8 U3 d4 d% a" U' V# S/ M7 [, [
You have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources. ; x6 i, P0 T: V2 f4 j6 J
Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land. $ [$ k6 r" ^: K, A9 u: A2 r0 j
You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to ) w" o" n1 }& w2 K$ q
pay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher
7 ]; x; N! Z7 l- i! {" }added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will
+ @& g' L$ k- r- a% ireconsider your grade.’ 4 z; J+ o- ]5 ~! c
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'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father ' [; ^# `! T+ k8 [( y- u' [
what he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your
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, B/ q" i% a; f. u'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same
+ z* j( f9 V7 u0 X9 V* O% q3 J& a' Fpaper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll 1 f; F, p* ^! V1 v
keep my dream.'' ) M7 h5 D5 c6 l3 ^
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Monty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story
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my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the 8 m8 W4 K* Z" X1 L2 F- s
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago ; ~2 h$ C/ j( P c4 ]3 U7 I
that same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.' * G' p1 M' B6 ^' C! ?+ b
When the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this
3 b" h# d% W: _4 N# o" e3 _4 inow. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During
- r' y' l+ l7 \& _2 j( s4 ^" N$ qthose years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption
" R6 k! q# M5 F4 b8 k) Q$ z5 onot to give up on yours.’'
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1 d, Q) p# \% K% g3 \+ N& hDon't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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