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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary. : _8 D2 r0 }+ B, s& W" w
After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home,
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$ X6 C. O; f3 d" X9 d) }As he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual 3 t$ [/ L; J! D" f9 R
description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been
; K7 t3 I9 M7 M3 |( mhung on his window. C t6 h! R$ W; z% o8 @9 n
1 M) \8 _3 y1 c"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having
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, |3 d, C: U/ u"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait."
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"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied. 9 j; ~6 X7 P3 D0 w
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"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my 1 h% [/ V T- r3 l- y+ g9 s5 ?
room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged ... it's how * I* W( t: @, n3 K
I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it." 5 S% S8 k* v& S# s
_% ~5 {/ I0 e6 {, f' jIt's a decision I make every morning when I wake up.
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' C. T7 y/ _1 B* ]9 RI have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I
5 r- I) L K' p, d/ A4 \- P$ \" bhave with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed
6 H# S: D. z. c ?( {$ T! [, S+ _and be thankful for the ones that do.
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! i1 H" m# } l A* Y' iEach day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new
2 p/ z' o1 w- b5 y) |) e* k& Iday and all the happy memories I've stored away. ( G# I; j; n+ j2 ^! {1 w/ L
3 o: ~3 z6 t: M) n/ z0 E. M& jJust for this time in my life. 5 ` e1 s5 i0 T5 W, Y" y4 E5 o
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Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in. 8 o! h6 ~& f- g0 g4 b
+ Y4 r" x" X1 v2 }* F/ i5 @So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank
" M+ u- o$ b xaccount of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank. $ e- c8 ]. ]& }( V) i
I am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy: 4 O/ Z2 t5 R: k/ A- o4 t
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1. Free your heart from hatred.
( [! W9 p; c$ o, `- q 2. Free your mind from worries.
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4. Give more.
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