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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
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, r" l' K! o) B8 [shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a " V0 b8 [/ W2 v- U1 [6 ^
nursing home today.
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary. / a$ _) s2 s5 g" C( Z/ x: _1 M. ?
After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home,
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, y" a6 [; A2 t. `# gAs he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual 0 U m0 W5 f" V& d% _' h% G
description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been ; c7 I2 P% O7 G- D3 T5 @
hung on his window.
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"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having 6 V" g! Z8 y9 k6 J6 A" L6 I5 m0 C
just been presented with a new puppy. / K6 D7 F8 M, b3 L/ g
p7 h& V) p+ W! A"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait."
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/ Y3 {) W( f4 g% D3 M"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied.
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1 D* L8 k9 }! [/ C# e"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my
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I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it." 8 c* ^& z7 A, i
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It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up.
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I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I 8 t% _$ r$ D5 `
have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed
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( Z2 j' z) z/ E% i; Z5 OEach day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new / M" c# v4 v9 V. ^! x* |' A
day and all the happy memories I've stored away.
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3 t0 [+ V: A4 r( p! E6 LJust for this time in my life. / Y6 e2 [, k2 r. P
0 ]! v ~( j7 c6 w& A) e5 e0 ROld age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in. , U/ k& |1 q3 b3 q
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So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank : A) \5 ]2 q3 a' x. N
account of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank. ( t$ e* J P, G: c, w
I am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
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% {. W+ ]$ R) j# n% V. f 1. Free your heart from hatred. : [7 T! } T" M
2. Free your mind from worries. ; \. H7 a D+ l; F1 ], e' z
3. Live simply.
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5. Expect less. |
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