本帖最后由 amiable 于 2012-4-5 11:56 编辑 . |* D% L0 `' B. h6 _
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Last Christmas Day, I went to a church. I asked the church to pick up me. I felt very shamed, I gave the church a big gift. They refused to receive my gift. When they asked a couple to help me go home, I felt shamed, too. When I found the lady was pregnant, I gave her a new gift for her kid. {:1_135:} I did not go to anywhere because I can not drive a car. I felt very shamed to ask others.
amiable 发表于 2012-4-5 10:52 ' C+ ~, ?$ c3 e) o8 r2 r" I. [1 Y& j+ |Last Christmas Day, I went to a church. I asked the church to pick up me. {:1_135 ...
- m2 n0 e+ N- _1 Y) q* `- z! Q( o千万千万不要这样说,教会的人都会非常非常开心地带你过去的。 6 u: ~* k5 J0 r0 K) I/ C我LG刚来加拿大时,半年内都是他的同事带他去这去那,我们没有感到Shame, 只是以后有机会帮助别人的时候去帮助有需要的人。 就像一个接力赛一样,每个人在人生的某一个阶段可能需要别人的手稍微扶一下。6 n, o* F Z5 f. u @/ x
况且我们有很多人,居住在各个地方,所以无论你住在哪里,都有人顺路将你带来,千万不要放在心上。 - n$ A, F- T5 B4 Q% M" A你愿意来吗?如果愿意的话,我会非常开心地接你过来的。 $ O) B: K5 P9 L& G8 F
6 [; {7 s/ s3 e! @7 q8 {& w Whoever Canadian or other immigrants from Africa or Asia gave me help, I like to give them gifts to express my thanks. I do not know what gifts I will bring to your church.
本帖最后由 amiable 于 2012-4-5 12:26 编辑 $ \5 i" C+ q7 p6 B. r! d8 f0 R, r# f9 u/ ~8 | v d7 D% O; s
I may tell you my phone number in your message. My cell phone was bought in Calgary, if I tell you my cell phone, the charge is long distance.
amiable 发表于 2012-4-5 11:20 4 n9 ~9 j- U- S( @* uWhoever Canadian or other immigrants from Africa or Asia gave me help, I like to give them gifts ...
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No worries at all about gifts, your present is the gift. If you really want to give away a gift, just pass it on to others when someone is in need in the future.