Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes

; [: Y/ V! c+ T9 EWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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; F2 P. X* }. U$ G! @: {2 u1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.

2.        Speak up when she’s good
- h6 S5 J9 e5 ~; D* [7 F" i! [If you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.
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' G( d% o9 o+ I: x3.        Stay one step ahead
Limit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
From no to yes
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8 U: |) w5 C' f! X! RWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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  d/ H/ I/ l8 A% B1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
5 r5 \. a! G! j! H# Q' F3 \7 ?Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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