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Follow Your Dream
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I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro.
8 O" p+ K: R, c* B7 Q& V0 [7 eHe has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money
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" X2 a/ r: R7 f/ lThe last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you 3 W$ H4 o0 G/ c5 {( q
why I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young & l8 N' I* _2 O/ A" t0 m
man who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable
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horses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted. ) ]0 S/ ^% }% z! s K' w! `0 W
When he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted $ c7 q' I' q5 y' h) |
to be and do when he grew up.
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'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday f$ L. h7 a1 ^9 {
owning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even ; k. I t! n! l2 ]' G. M
drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings, : E7 s, k4 i( {- S* U
the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot 8 ~1 O. k. v: n( e" \
house that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch. & n& r9 m$ U3 h9 f( J6 j2 ?
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'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he
1 y5 e/ A( u. n- u8 Dhanded it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back. * s, y c2 l- q
On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after
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$ b6 @+ c% W& j' m, r5 z. h8 Y'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked,
5 x6 S. ^- n" o. i8 F! R`Why did I receive an F?' ' U: x5 G6 q5 N3 W" p& M. |7 k& [
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'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you.
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Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land. & p0 }! I u" K
You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to
" Q+ X. c: }5 V: T) Qpay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher
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# v( i' A% S$ N/ E% K; R' Xreconsider your grade.’
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/ M$ ?% b# K7 {: _5 v! \- {6 N/ W, C'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father 3 F" U- y6 h" j! R, c# i
what he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your
- l7 |% ?4 ~5 F8 _$ _own mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for ' R4 C" o: G& v0 w8 P
you.’
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'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same
1 c# X+ B: U+ G7 Mpaper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll
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9 I" h; {0 q% I+ y3 S- xMonty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story , y/ v; S/ j/ Y8 _* U1 f1 k
because you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of " s0 \, u- ?2 c/ g! u; F
my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the $ `# f4 [' w* h5 P3 L _8 Y
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago
* B6 h9 h, X( dthat same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.' 9 `; ]' d, `8 c6 S" e) [
When the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this
- ^/ k* P) h8 B) g q. N2 t6 cnow. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During ) z% U+ @# Q7 p# V) n+ U# q
those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption
3 l/ x2 B0 ^6 o6 P/ p7 u# Bnot to give up on yours.’'
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8 j! @& B8 u3 h% I! ~6 qDon't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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