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I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro. 0 T _4 p+ i) l) d
He has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money
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The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you
' m1 w: J$ Z: E4 Z/ s. E2 h& cwhy I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young * P" C3 ~0 Z& K" ?
man who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable
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horses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted. & F0 S- R8 M5 @/ C8 ]
When he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted
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. _6 O/ t7 g" L1 P A' @% Z'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday
$ M+ G P8 W0 j" \owning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even
" b: G# G, s+ D/ @+ u. V$ Z. _drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings, 6 g c; x- T, a8 A' j/ R$ \$ ~0 m
the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot
1 N3 C2 k0 }. G/ @! rhouse that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch. 8 z R) Z4 B% e9 k: ~- {; F9 x0 i8 A" Z
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'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he 3 _/ c* g" g% w$ ?5 ^. M1 w C
handed it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back. . m! A2 y" H3 z# q& U" T3 k
On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after
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'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked, 8 e8 |. [7 F, V$ z2 z9 ]- {
`Why did I receive an F?' 9 F a% R) Z1 p. k2 w
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'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you.
r( w9 m- s" K' P1 pYou have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources. 0 B6 K; _: { P0 |2 y
Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land. ! l+ y+ R1 W9 X; s
You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to
7 H9 P Z z# Tpay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher
9 N/ k i9 h) ?$ o# V1 `added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will
) j/ P4 @0 p* oreconsider your grade.’ + a) X) b1 d+ X/ T
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'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father & Z0 z5 A, o: g# d* y, z' J6 S
what he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your $ o8 k5 e% Y* }+ y* [3 n; e2 B
own mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for
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'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same % o+ c; g6 r* T# s2 A+ u4 V
paper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll ; }3 G4 p, |' c p8 ?5 o! C
keep my dream.''
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Monty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story & e4 [* l7 J0 j1 \' I4 s; ^
because you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of ' J: U+ t+ L" F/ D9 S: W) i
my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the ( v% N% S! b2 [$ T7 c+ Z2 W
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago
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5 P" H5 s4 U4 `, @5 G6 R) s( UWhen the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this
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those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption
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Don't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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