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<转帖>孩子是因你而来,不是为你而来

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鲜花(1010) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-2-28 16:29 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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本帖最后由 秀色可餐 于 2014-2-28 16:34 编辑 * B) b0 u* J+ s) q5 Z
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今天偶然看到这首纪伯伦的诗,觉得很好,贴出来和大家一起分享; [- S% ]: R2 v

# N4 h/ O8 {4 BOn Children5 t5 T2 S; P+ I: B- n( g3 o
Kahlil Gibran) k) i+ v- I: w9 I. w
Your children are not your children.
4 M4 z' @0 I) R% kThey are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
7 M7 p3 n. h6 i- @They come through you but not from you,! o" O% c% P" B) @
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.: t, y$ X& h8 c" f* U6 ?
You may give them your love but not your thoughts,  }9 @0 ]* ~. X" \/ m' u+ N
For they have their own thoughts.
, ~( g; g$ M3 ]! W! G# C2 YYou may house their bodies but not their souls,
, n0 J- c8 I- d2 P: c5 {" eFor their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
+ r3 i: F; Z( G3 X% Kwhich you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
. |; P$ x' x. X/ aYou may strive to be like them,
5 Q  @5 ~1 X- @' O& ubut seek not to make them like you.
2 G: ?. c3 W% L- t( O$ D* b5 ^For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
: f; n# H' s& ZYou are the bows from which your children
1 U7 y+ s5 B4 e& [) q$ x) S( ias living arrows are sent forth.9 q, I5 q3 n) h) G% v7 h
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,
4 r& i, Q! U  l0 x. S* qand He bends you with His might9 N5 f. M0 L# U' I8 S2 e' @
that His arrows may go swift and far.0 ~% K9 d$ l' u/ a' Z' h
Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;
( g9 v( A& x* o6 d$ W9 j" lFor even as He loves the arrow that flies,
- E9 Z: _( j3 f2 rso He loves also the bow that is stable.
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鲜花(1010) 鸡蛋(1)
 楼主| 发表于 2014-2-28 16:36 | 显示全部楼层
下面是中文翻译,可能不是很贴切。当你真正体会到其中的涵义时,便会发现其中“爱”、“放手”、“分清责任”、“信任”、“尊重”、“正向信念”这些家庭教育的真谛都包含其中。% k4 A0 g* o( N; S; o
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你的子女,其实不是你的子女。3 C# n  X, P* \- ^2 m; }7 c
他们是生命对于自身渴望而诞生的孩子。" z6 m, n  G# N/ k' h( ]6 ^
他们借助你来到这世界,却非因你而来。
6 Z! _5 l8 T# x. ]9 S& G他们在你身旁,却并不属于你。
9 B! V( s; D. Y3 E& |  r9 c你可以给予他们的是你的爱,却不是你的思想,
& }7 A- K# Y7 P4 D/ T8 g因为他们有自己的思想。
& H$ `7 n/ K2 L: L  o你可以庇护的是他们的身体,却不是他们的灵魂,) k& e0 m+ @: \* }$ R9 i- N8 U
因为他们的灵魂属于明天,属于你做梦都无法到达的明天,
1 J( M+ K4 U" C* @7 V9 o你可以拚尽全力,变得像他们一样,9 u& K, p. L* r2 I, F
却不要让他们变得和你一样,
0 d6 o/ f- a: V+ ^/ M1 p因为生命不会后退,也不在过去停留。
  H! w! C" V: T% C# j/ l你是弓,儿女是从你那里射出的箭。
. \  \, u+ G5 Z" _# P9 P弓箭手望着未来之路上的箭靶,
  h( H3 _- ^) W/ X它用尽力气将你拉开,使他的箭射得又快又远。: C2 q5 R% t: t7 O9 c7 ]- ?/ i
怀着快乐的心情,在弓箭手的手中弯曲吧,
6 w' p: ?4 M: Y4 k. G* ^因为他爱一路飞翔的箭,也爱无比稳定的弓。
鲜花(168) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-2-28 19:04 | 显示全部楼层
太美了,而且句句精辟深刻!
鲜花(8) 鸡蛋(0)
发表于 2014-3-1 20:03 | 显示全部楼层
老杨团队 追求完美
体会体会,非常有理
鲜花(172) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-3-1 21:14 | 显示全部楼层
真是好文,谢谢分享!!!
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