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One day, when I was a freshman in high school,
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I saw a kid from my class was walking home from school.
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/ P& q1 w( r4 S) PHis name was Kyle.
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It looked like he was carrying all of his, V& v. B8 ]6 n
Books.+ n" z& n' P) ]# C$ R
& g3 A0 x( D( K$ Q, bI thought to myself, "Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday?
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He must really be a nerd."" P% n0 x! ]; r" f7 q( h
. y+ `% N5 z: }4 aI had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on.
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As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him.
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6 m! I! \' d* g3 z: X) r6 K; [$ C# IThey ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt." X$ B4 X" g: f" _
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His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him.
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% ^! b9 A9 b- v* J) x: h! PHe looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes7 V$ Y4 c# L7 E" D0 w: D
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My heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him and as he crawled around looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye.
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As I handed him his glasses, I said, "Those guys are jerks.
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They really should get lives.2 e1 v# f# `7 Y2 J% d
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" He looked at me and said, "Hey thanks!"0 h: J2 j; b" n3 o3 R- p
2 T$ [( [4 {7 ~- h- P+ t x3 m0 |There was a big smile on his face.
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It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude.
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6 `$ @3 S$ { ?1 CI helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived.* a& P$ y* K# ~1 W. m1 R
4 ^+ N5 R A7 Z3 nAs it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before.2 A, i @* I9 }9 M
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He said he had gone to private school before now.6 g6 l# G% n8 T. ^1 \# f
" [+ \% J" g; ]& lI would have never hung out with a private school kid before.: q- d! Q# l# ]# u
6 ?4 w2 _& Y1 J( C2 @. k4 `4 Z0 z0 rWe talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books.: L+ ?6 B. L. H5 U
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He turned out to be a pretty cool kid.8 W5 i% ]3 D a3 L; M6 z' q
" }3 g+ ~/ f5 N6 \" x6 ~I asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my friends.
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He said yes.
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* j) e! b: u) v" d$ n7 r( Y$ h2 NWe hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him, and my friends thought the same of him.
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Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again.$ T$ G8 r$ D% n: j1 l
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I stopped him and said, "Boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday!/ W, ]8 R' V+ ?1 l4 K
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" He just laughed and handed me half the books./ t+ _& A# k; A3 D, `3 m
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Over the next four years, Kyle and I became best friends.
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When we were seniors, we began to think$ ~( H" Q$ ]0 n: f$ s
About college.
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Kyle decided on Georgetown, and I
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I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be a problem.0 T! \) _. R8 F7 F6 R
/ H- `5 M" t8 W3 s2 tHe was going to be a doctor, and I was going for business on a football scholarship.& \% e7 z7 K3 {8 O6 O. C: Y
' _7 n2 R9 B" W' F* o+ o* YKyle was valedictorian of our class.) D. {/ A! P. t1 N
1 j- T3 U" Z) v& j7 pI teased him all the time about being a nerd.
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2 b0 N% M1 W: r6 F, [He had to prepare a speech for graduation.$ N2 d8 b! u" O2 w* L
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I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak& z- l0 d0 P' \, P; A5 f& ~# G) s
, V/ \$ L4 E! V* cGraduation day, I saw Kyle./ w1 w& d; U; e7 C3 z
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He looked great.
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He was one of those guys that really found himself during high school.
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He filled out and actually looked good in glasses.9 M3 m3 z' {" F5 Z
# l/ \" @3 \& b4 D O! cHe had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him.7 K7 ^4 C3 Q) N2 p& l$ ^2 A1 j
% T" l6 D( j$ Q. M0 c" ABoy, sometimes I was jealous.
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Today was one of those days.
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1 N" |$ J Y, Z: _I could see that he was nervous about his speech.1 ?; N5 ?0 c- k1 Z3 {* d+ k3 {
" |7 k4 I; ?. L0 A# _; } O8 M; BSo, I smacked him on the back and said, "Hey, big guy, you'll be great!"' _& |, X/ `9 `* P" ?# U
2 [/ t/ i. _9 I9 PHe looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one) and smiled.. \4 h5 H! p+ a' [
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"Thanks," he said.
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As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began
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"Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years.: _; n8 p, g& [4 I- _: w/ F
/ C5 l. H/ U$ V& K# jYour parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach...but mostly your friends...5 Q7 ? c; a, n0 J
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I am here to tell all of you that being a
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I am going to tell you a story."
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; S6 I- o' s8 h3 J3 z$ mI just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the story of the first day we met.
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He had planned to kill himself over the weekend.
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He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home.
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8 a4 ` h( n" ]* j9 V- J: ~- RHe looked hard at me and gave me a little smile.
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$ h3 p% J" }6 [: m2 J"Thankfully, I was saved.$ P4 P8 b) q5 V3 d, M
8 o8 K+ E. y4 Q) \My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable."$ j! U/ e `% a! N: M& y
. ?' G- F0 Q, M8 m7 [+ kI heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all about his weakest moment.
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- C! ]) E+ _ D/ k+ ]I saw his Mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile./ S* C/ F+ T* E' U2 V; o% O6 n
2 l0 ?) _! c4 [+ o' UNot until that moment did I realize it's depth.
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Never underestimate the power of your actions.
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With one small gesture you can change a person's life.2 p3 ~; z/ C0 l7 T; K. B
' S7 c& u1 l$ j. `. G+ G2 TFor better or for worse.
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. Y0 M6 t; T# r+ GGod puts us all in each other's lives to impact one another in some way.$ ~3 p: I' M1 h7 g- E# [" Q
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Look for God in others.
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You now have two choices, you can:
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1) Pass this on to your friends or
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2) Delete it and act like it didn't touch your heart.1 D7 r7 J6 O" W- N# \: _# j
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As you can see, I took choice number 1.
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8 k9 E6 b C: `: _1 `There is no beginning or end.. Yesterday is history.# z. u6 z8 C( e6 x+ S: b8 w
7 n7 J/ a( q1 x) a! kTomorrow is mystery., i3 O+ O Z5 M+ m3 u
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Today is a gift.7 L$ ^8 @, r9 K% r7 P( w2 v9 m
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It's National Friendship Week. Show your friends how much you care. Send this to everyone you consider a FRIEND.
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; {8 v- [7 r2 l- s9 lIf it comes back to you, then you'll know you have a circle of friends. |
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