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 Slow down for three minutes to read this. It is so worth it.: w/ U" U" N5 I9 i) O1 N/ N
Touching words from the mouths of babes.. F3 B, E7 d1 V
What does 'Love' mean?1 C2 Q) z$ y; V
A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, 'What does 'love' mean?'2 E% }: j: q% q# @6 |2 E
The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think:. G0 b5 g! ?$ X/ p6 L1 ~2 F
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0 p7 F+ C* f+ b* t4 Q'When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore.; ^8 @ Q3 M2 |4 q
5 Z& I6 f5 j; {, d3 ySo my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love.'
- I, V4 }9 r3 hRebecca- age 8
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'When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.5 n- N; J) [4 \
You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.' U5 ]/ {9 i# _. m; b, @$ f! o
Billy - age 4
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'Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.'
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" u8 {0 ]3 L& `, A' V7 C% e# h'Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.': k a+ K: g3 t; v5 Q6 h
C hrissy - age 6
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+ t! `7 z5 e* {5 z% Z- d$ Q'Love is what makes you smile when you're tired.'
6 K) @( r7 {4 {$ F) T1 ETerri - age 4
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'Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.'
8 |+ h' q r7 c" X. |- n% ^0 g8 XDanny - age 7
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'Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more.. Z, u! [+ P3 i0 I
My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss'9 c2 ?2 R8 |* ~8 V
Emily - age 8
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+ [' s C. F& m. J/ @'Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.'7 u8 F; Z$ `$ n1 _7 i2 z
Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)* i* o5 t" l) {1 o7 W
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4 @6 s" M3 n8 A3 \'If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,'
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0 }" E) L% q+ F0 m: VNikka - age 6
U: K6 `) A& Z(we need a few million more Nikka's on this planet) ]7 s) |% t2 T e' ~( a6 g6 _
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& g# v' k, n# }1 j3 l) JNoelle - age 78 Q$ h6 K$ t0 I7 \
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+ [; o' k* V k6 y1 P4 ~'Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.'7 _, O5 Q# n+ g+ S: f, g, n
Tommy - age 6
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'During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling.& ^( W d8 R3 m9 o( K! c
0 `' E% d. |$ H$ xHe was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore.'
8 W8 ?( c* i3 D6 J5 M, Q, fCindy - age 8- |3 a$ L# W4 {3 E
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* F* t! A) J+ \3 p; Y: d'My mommy loves me more than anybody
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You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.'; l8 g/ v* q: x8 N) x' @6 j
C lare - age 6
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'Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.'5 |5 M) I3 b7 ]! Q
Elaine-age 5/ g. b$ X% D, u: s7 r
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'Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.'
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'Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day' x' K9 K6 p- ~& l2 O
Mary Ann - age 40 t$ \! _# z3 ]6 Q$ y& {' b
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'I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.'
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' I! @) S9 y0 z- W% f2 K- v'When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.' (what an image)* }- z4 Q }- E4 v$ I
Karen - age 7
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'You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.'
8 O! W q+ K/ W4 kJessica - age 8
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And the final one -- Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge.
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The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child.' c1 T; a0 f8 u4 N; ~3 O
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The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.
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Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.
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When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said,) L8 w5 k9 A, y" [" G f- M
'Nothing, I just helped him cry' |
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