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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。# E& r! v o# z ]& ^; G, G% r
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee# C( ]# l# [* u: q" W/ S
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in 9 U9 e* ~/ q# B& E
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of / P' o4 n: l$ a5 _. b
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. k& \6 y' @" c> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
( V5 t- g1 e/ s: Z+ O" u* H7 m> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and # @) |3 w# b# _- }
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
$ \( e8 q( X3 Y5 X4 q, s> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was. b, b q) G8 R$ f) z# T
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
9 f6 {( {. N9 G( w8 F# C4 v0 m* w( d> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
7 T% \( C; |* N( u; O/ ?" j> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
0 N! }! _. v( U. s+ H> agreed it was. Z, C9 a+ u' P5 ~- F" o g
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of ) w- Q/ S. ^' w% t, S
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
8 a; w: M9 Z. ?% A& w! _. f0 e> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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+ A3 b2 I& s! U5 |1 m> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and + \3 }4 e! q3 \
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty ) E$ x. a' O; {, j; {8 Z
> space between the sand. The students laughed.7 i2 ^8 C! e( l' F
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" A& p( o& s; K. f> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
4 b3 O+ N5 N: B( D2 }) u> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
7 _/ {0 C- _0 }( f( \7 Y: Z> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
/ @: n0 i/ c" U' ]+ j> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they ' G, w, c8 y8 q: }
> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and + a9 j9 c) ^; H' X {
> your car.
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; o" U7 h( |5 C5 U> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into . k" j4 `7 T( U, X8 {5 y( Y# z
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
" [# F( |& J1 D> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
# D/ V) n8 ^. D! S! v& Q/ W2 A> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are , f- ]1 n9 D* Q# w+ x9 O5 W
> important to you.1 `8 @7 M. |2 j5 U) c G7 I8 H
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
& p1 h. c) g F% C" O4 C/ F> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
+ W! [: Z' c4 y* n> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to : p P9 E- \2 V9 f4 m
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
+ p" \% z, ?) V, ^> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
: D5 t7 _) p$ E& }> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee , D2 ^9 [# I% r* {, Z
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, : f; j4 h8 Z6 K
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."6 _6 M9 {+ A% T6 q
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