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* f9 B* S" q% F! {; DSometimes people come into your life
' B$ Z$ W: ~0 M) H5 i8 G+ Nyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
% c" j* L3 m8 Z# oto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
1 k. p6 z8 q' cor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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! e; e4 f3 ?+ P0 N- h+ KYou never know who these people may be
5 P; c h! N ?& e- U) c% d( N& N! qbut when you lock eyes with them,
- y; k9 Q: ?' |you know at that very moment,8 ~+ ^) q* m/ `2 p* j6 V2 a
; W6 V, M" t. o- I- x- HThey will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
! {3 o! Q6 S( `. i1 I1 Z% n, HThey are there for the reason you need them to be.- B9 m; d% o1 J }
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.! T6 D2 _9 |3 {' F9 S! B
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.; R- X3 K8 A( e$ `% Q" Z9 G
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
' C5 \3 H; l" Y7 Nour desire fulfilled, their work is done.4 I: M* Z# |! f3 D
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
) @$ _ \+ d* n) q: TAnd now it is time for you to move on.
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$ I+ @0 S. q$ J+ |/ Z0 j* fThen people come into your life for a REASON$ `. f; _0 z! X) g
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
- g" x8 Y; `8 EThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
) v6 `3 C8 \! n B9 xThey may teach you something you have never done.1 \# S$ r3 \/ O, t4 ]- T* ~( O
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.2 c" R1 o5 g; f4 U
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦- j. L2 A+ R/ N4 F2 P( Y- X, {
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:7 g1 V& ], o5 U
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,/ m; \6 J7 w* P! N6 Y
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
1 e. N1 j- |; O. ]: p8 AEverything happens for a reason.8 Q* S! v9 v% f7 h" o* n
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.& s6 |% n3 b' ^( ]$ P$ U3 |
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
$ z- J) I% |# {! N8 r. Land sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,; z M' B6 W1 O4 e8 B$ F
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
% ^$ ~/ H; F7 f- AIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
: T. s9 W- o+ F2 o! J gfor they have helped you learn about trust
. o: Q1 h F# o* L) a; Z( y% Band the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
* V2 w6 I% c: r' e4 n; ^If someone loves you, express your appreciation,7 o% w$ R G% J+ i# P
Try to love them back unconditionally,
) _4 Z9 |2 }! t0 r! R( H; p. n, l2 knot only because they love you, but because in a way,
# a( X0 S/ ^% C8 \% H, s/ vthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things." }2 v7 O9 l+ i: s
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
2 g3 Q3 a" E: q/ ~, X3 v( {( sA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
3 h9 R& F- Q# ~' D# s- `' Zand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."8 c( v7 D# Z1 w7 p5 x! i/ F- t! l. B
God's grace is as a healing hand.
! V& J$ m& L2 M" r. C* Z. {As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
4 P& t% i6 J) K3 W" g, C! N" Othe warm memories and love for those we have lost
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