Originally posted by 一叶知秋 at 2005-3-7 02:18 PM: 5 J7 s0 D$ y; P' G4月中旬回国先去他家办婚礼。5月回来,7月在Edmonton的教堂再正式注册结婚。现在正在牧师那里上Marriage Counseling呢,呵呵,还挺好玩的。第一堂Counseling把我和Heartbroke2隔开到两个房间,分别做了160道选择题 ...
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您说的是哪间教会,能告诉我们名字和地址吗?基督教还是天主教,还是别的?。。。。。。
Originally posted by 心情 at 2005-3-7 07:14 PM: # h3 E4 ^2 o \' y- t" t按照你的说法:世界上所有离婚的都是缺德的人?7 P3 w1 _ i, j4 K9 g1 ^/ B) a2 L; G
我不是这个意思。你理解错了。我的意思是,到了这个地步,你应该尽力而为的去承担,去为事情的解决而做点好事。就当作积德吧7 ` T$ h8 L& J1 Y9 [, a
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这个道理大家会认同吗?想想,也许你的亲人、你了解的好朋友中就有离婚或者外遇的人。感情的事情很多人说得不清,当然我承认责任,但是责任感不等于感情。。。我们可 ...
Originally posted by 心情 at 2005-3-8 03:12 PM: 2 F! t2 K; T( B你好。多谢你!想请教一个问题,我该与妻摊牌(告诉她真相)吗?我没有与她说这些事,因为她的脾气。我也不想伤她太深。再说,她闹起来很厉害。这也是我没有与她说的原因。谢谢。。! A) o" |5 | z. r& a2 ?
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同时,请教三思和其他朋友这 ...
How come most of us are giving him such a bad time for the betrayal? It is already a fact. It is also a fact that he doesn’t love the wife any more. How can a marriage without love do any good to a child? A happy family can benefit a kid the rest of his or her life but an unhappy one can damage the kid or harm the kid a lot more than the parents resolve the marriage in a appropriate way… It was his fault but people without similar experience can not really feel the bitterness. Therefore, I think we’d better give him suggestions so that things won’t get worse.
Originally posted by OliveOil at 2005-3-9 12:59 PM: : b0 H. f9 J! o' g2 _How come most of us are giving him such a bad time for the betrayal? It is already a fact. It is also a fact that he doesn’t love the wife any more. How can a marriage without love do any good to ...
, Y Q0 e' q, w; V) j我个人认为,持这类观点的人把自己看得比孩子重要。并非冒犯,而是个人态度。任何婚姻都有问题,绝大多数可以work out,尤其是决心为了孩子work out 出来。起码要尝试,反复尝试work it out.
Originally posted by 三思 at 2005-3-9 17:58: % J1 G s, J* A* @6 c2 ^我个人认为,持这类观点的人把自己看得比孩子重要。并非冒犯,而是个人态度。任何婚姻都有问题,绝大多数可以work out,尤其是决心为了孩子work out 出来。起码要尝试,反复尝试work it out.