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发表于 2004-10-29 04:51 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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THE STENCH OF HATRED
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/ i9 P3 X8 V4 F; Z& |9 f' _A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game. " L  R4 l7 s; ~

5 x( D, _8 n( O: _' x! |7 ^8 \$ Z6 rThe teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic
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bag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name # u) ]; q" K* w9 X! Q# r

/ x% P4 }# g2 \  yof a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that
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a child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number 0 p6 l3 d8 y; ]7 C8 U: r! S
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of people he/she hates.
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$ m, |) o3 l6 @4 I" [! s. ~- LSo when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with 0 l! _' I) F. w* O8 C

0 m$ Y$ H# r1 N% F9 U- `5 C" |the name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some
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) E" l. C. U; u: r5 |3 while some up to 5 potatoes. 0 a" }7 g, V+ i$ J
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The teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes + |3 j, `2 c' y1 l  a5 i0 Q
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in the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week. + X. \) U$ I: F- t( c, C+ w6 S
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Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain
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due to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides, ! W, h  O0 {) V! Y( S
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those having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1
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week, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended. 7 t( Y" @7 s5 D+ ~& v; Q
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The teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes
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with you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and
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4 T* d) c/ R6 C5 x7 {4 `started complaining of the trouble that they had to go through $ y& z1 n: J( [; X
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having to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go. ' c( E. d4 w. f- J3 w: M. j+ t

0 R: m3 ~$ K" Z: bThen the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game.
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The teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry
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; n8 a& {6 I5 j0 I4 yyour hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred 2 P1 g/ A( y5 |: B
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will contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever " A! u6 h$ @3 X. [; ]; |
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you go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just 3 o! s& k* R6 X' o  T6 T2 [

/ c" O3 }( g2 M2 b1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred
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in your heart for your lifetime???"
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"Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else;
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5 Z' M/ c0 J7 O6 R  [Give yourself the gift of forgiveness"
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发表于 2004-11-1 05:10 | 显示全部楼层
The implied meaning is simple but profound.
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