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THE STENCH OF HATRED
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A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game.
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The teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic $ ]+ [( O" p, [4 g- ?# t
3 ^: v- p# Z7 R1 obag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name 0 x+ a1 t6 A' I- c7 m' c
" {2 J# l) t9 x) b# b9 oof a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that 6 `' C# T# o9 s5 v! U' o* I
: w$ r$ ^* n2 N( wa child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number
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So when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with
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* }, ~# b! i8 t1 z/ qthe name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some
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3 while some up to 5 potatoes.
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The teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes
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* D* |( O2 ~3 S# m1 D- X* Ain the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week. + z- I" }5 ]$ C9 X4 L6 X
3 }+ U- o+ i. gDays after days passed by, and the children started to complain
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due to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides,
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those having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1 # ?: u$ q6 ~- T
% |! {% W0 m1 o Iweek, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended. " ^1 G& ~: r# i5 t$ d
4 E. G1 d6 D4 U& J* ?. p* L2 Z0 H; C; kThe teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes
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with you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and ; Z! Y5 i! P6 \) K& u, z# |
& Z( y6 p3 |& f5 {started complaining of the trouble that they had to go through % t+ y, }0 l/ u! r$ P
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having to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go. 7 M1 K) N% r6 ]9 D% z7 m
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Then the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game.
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( t+ d3 i; _1 x' } [The teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry 8 W! N* h+ L* \1 I( d
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your hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred * h9 n% o5 u1 q' `" o$ v' p& [
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will contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever c `$ w9 H# g% K9 y1 A
- d8 s+ z$ L( \( z; J3 c" Oyou go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just
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in your heart for your lifetime???" * `6 e9 d! B/ L- m- _: N" Q
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"Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else; 3 a* h' _: @9 F" E; O
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it is something you do for yourself. 2 P5 I! r' K3 R& I
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Give yourself the gift of forgiveness" |
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