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Follow Your Dream
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* Q p& e+ v eI have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro. . H' @3 i' D) Y1 h3 F
He has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money ' V0 l' m+ A2 ?, r7 x4 d! H
for youth at risk programs. % Z' ]8 L6 L) E9 T0 s7 s
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The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you $ F8 D) q* i, j, [7 s# d( g
why I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young + v% L: }6 J% M8 ^1 @7 M; K" w
man who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable
; X+ u2 {; d8 k5 ~: hto stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training ( J3 b W* A3 u J5 o1 r
horses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted.
# ?; r6 H) I* D* v: [$ n2 YWhen he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted , Y& B' V8 B6 _9 G- r1 a
to be and do when he grew up. ' u8 `' O0 o5 I4 J+ `; Q# f3 l
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'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday
* r" `5 N2 N0 b+ r* K; T* t" kowning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even
: Z" @6 S* U7 J1 l- @: o' M K* {drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings, - [1 } G+ z8 D- x! R( [. e) U
the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot
% ?) |% I {) X5 _8 u% z: C# Qhouse that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch. , @. d+ k5 e u
+ K2 z/ c6 w2 L. i# ^* C# o'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he
3 Q9 ^- ^" ?. B9 _1 g, Qhanded it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back.
1 _* N5 |3 F% L& Z% YOn the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after
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'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked, # n) S2 t3 v1 o. [- ^, H
`Why did I receive an F?' 6 w- y/ q6 G% N0 L ^. }
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'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you.
' ]* K& x8 C% B8 N4 K ^You have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources. 2 E% |8 n' o# q3 h2 u
Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land. " n; o, C/ P2 G' F6 |
You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to $ g+ q" M) y: {1 d4 ?5 V8 z) F
pay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher ) F* r% f: I2 P! A" W
added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will
) v$ f5 ?& h1 A; @. Treconsider your grade.’
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: B. h: y/ H1 Y8 c'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father
8 r; j7 O4 x' V! x& xwhat he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your 8 T2 t8 U* A8 y! `
own mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for - P( d8 z6 [/ X( ?8 l& ^; e
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'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same 6 w' i# |) r8 c6 X- ~5 p
paper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll
* q& z' N# ?5 P, F: ^0 ~! Lkeep my dream.'' * j$ R( M" ?6 w# ?. y
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Monty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story % u" O7 s* u% v! u, B
because you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of & ]9 E3 B0 v6 l+ ?( s
my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the : Z- O! ^ g4 m Y; O0 l2 w$ [4 U
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago
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When the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this
1 @* w' H$ M; g g/ @6 v- |2 n: fnow. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During ) O. z; Q2 ~5 N
those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption 2 h9 x" W* C; K# r z$ C: d3 b; Z
not to give up on yours.’' 6 ~, q- k. j. o
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Don't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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