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0 x! B$ Z$ m4 T0 cI have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro. 6 P4 I: K3 P: M5 n) x
He has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money 4 _# A5 d. @8 R5 [
for youth at risk programs.
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The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you
" Z7 r$ u8 z. i" J6 Hwhy I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young : d& w$ F, w& y: F
man who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable + z" o6 d' L/ `/ t; d7 y
to stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training 8 J) |8 N2 ]; ^" p; k+ s8 k1 e5 p
horses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted. 4 K. `. h6 {& A
When he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted
/ _2 J3 D% j6 A8 H) `% _( x6 T; `8 vto be and do when he grew up.
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'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday
u& U9 y% m! R0 jowning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even
' q, t$ Y. U$ c' Y3 ?! Hdrew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings,
8 i0 e+ u/ I0 l3 A* `+ m ]the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot 3 x8 f# G7 W" Y% Z# v+ ~) {6 K w
house that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch. 6 q0 v. U# X( B" ?" u4 M6 ~8 U' {3 j" t
- N Q/ {6 A/ q, e'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he $ d9 D5 z7 H. P: t/ U
handed it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back. # X1 H. Y p- e* e+ X
On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after % M6 g6 G! p0 m! ^+ q
class.' 3 y: o* p4 R' x$ L* o( }! I
( H0 E, ]7 e- U'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked,
& e0 d7 N* \8 ?7 ^`Why did I receive an F?' 4 Y* w' g& ~5 ~5 z- q" P
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'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you. # U& l" Y8 H# U0 o4 t
You have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources.
X- d( V( s: V$ g( fOwning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land.
7 P g0 M5 C- fYou have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to . k6 i4 E# |% z% U* }' U) V
pay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher
( d2 I2 B- m# |0 w, h3 s' Ladded, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will , G3 s! L8 T5 @" T6 j6 c
reconsider your grade.’ # S+ C* Q; D* _* B
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'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father
" p3 a) r/ M/ r: Q' w( z+ h8 K# Mwhat he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your
4 l8 G/ O, b( w% Yown mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for
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+ s/ K4 \; y9 x- ?'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same
6 W9 a" ?7 h; x7 q& h, z" opaper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll % z. N4 I, \1 @- c$ ?
keep my dream.'' & r# o& ]) ^ Z/ Y
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Monty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story
3 N! h E3 M4 `: |because you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of
+ @" @) R& o% J' [. V0 h5 f* W' cmy 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the / G6 [6 g! P, C2 n+ k: i: W
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago
Y5 c P' w. O& x, @that same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.'
& D. [0 e7 o0 |# O# D# E: @9 PWhen the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this $ p/ C# a) f3 ^5 ~: Z& Z
now. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During ( B+ h* a1 f1 H( p) Z: F
those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption
& p. w1 x# s. y5 b, snot to give up on yours.’' 1 N( P" l+ B6 z4 p1 k4 d" h5 H
+ k1 ^+ {1 Q( cDon't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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