 鲜花( 0)  鸡蛋( 0)
|
Follow Your Dream
, H) y% h9 `6 }7 S8 J- J% ^
6 m; c: u' t% L* p+ h- j) o
7 w8 C0 \. M* e- I" P
d6 A9 Z7 v' y; |# tI have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro.
8 _" D D% u, V! e) W7 U2 F! PHe has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money # t2 f E8 `1 r8 d$ l# ?
for youth at risk programs. + ?! e; I7 k+ @
# [8 h% ? t' L3 r5 ]8 e# ~
The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you 5 {7 {, D, J4 R- U8 t4 X1 C% s4 ]6 G5 }
why I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young ! n+ H' w5 o# w) \) b+ O
man who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable R& ~9 Q! u9 ^* g1 b8 w, ]
to stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training
) a# O+ ?8 _0 T7 u6 c0 Q: i6 U7 x6 vhorses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted.
. ^1 G Y7 R, {7 XWhen he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted . w) o$ q, Q, Y x
to be and do when he grew up.
7 l& w% w3 r1 s6 T$ u- L! U
. h5 `8 F; w$ X' G'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday
1 y# j4 e: y6 x. x0 Downing a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even 2 h* v! ]& |" M5 c3 @( D
drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings, ' z1 b6 _4 u) p+ y( H! i: U4 x
the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot 6 [8 v9 F# Y! N* Q
house that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch.
7 `: D# c6 }" m6 _8 X( Z5 o- A' G7 w9 N0 M1 X
'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he
" } W4 U7 J! R* {2 V+ t4 _handed it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back.
8 L6 @ r2 N9 ^! W$ i, u! s, oOn the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after 4 T x0 h# J9 v/ d
class.' 4 H0 u; n$ A l5 i# P; ?' o
' `/ W0 g7 g4 O
'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked,
; S; \+ C6 q# [0 F`Why did I receive an F?'
1 c0 F( ]) e4 \8 G5 W$ R+ s
- ^) ?' d3 `/ g' y( t'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you.
Z4 Z+ |& b8 F E- GYou have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources.
s; j) h5 G# o+ V- NOwning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land.
6 u) T: s& Y0 u/ gYou have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to
3 T t/ k2 x, ?3 d! U# Epay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher 2 d- h D ^. ^4 }
added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will ( ~) ^6 Y, v+ c' V- Q7 ?
reconsider your grade.’ , U' }- l( _9 [; T+ _
! H5 Z$ E R) A Z8 H, Q
'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father
9 ~/ U/ E+ `& gwhat he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your
5 `" U6 d) p. p+ H% S. town mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for ; |$ M' d7 @' H3 B
you.’
; j7 k: I9 O6 ~- `: @ E
8 R. n) n( E4 f( `; ^3 M'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same
) Y; g; r, ^! b3 K6 c+ Bpaper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll
& K& Q( {- C* E/ n2 f* fkeep my dream.'' ' ~; N# D5 @: N7 j* E2 K) w
" _7 U+ P# W n* S
Monty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story
% A3 C& L. O! B' B! ]because you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of
6 v9 Q8 g1 _) S* O3 Fmy 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the
3 X8 f* Y, f! }+ ]fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago ; M. O; U3 {- F& q7 t8 p( v* F
that same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.' 7 ?1 K* b9 u* u# n) w( x
When the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this 6 s* \0 _4 Z, D) ]) w+ I, l r
now. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During
# Z6 Z4 o4 F/ a2 T6 s9 ]8 dthose years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption ' H1 x# E5 I0 d1 K, D c0 b9 f+ u
not to give up on yours.’'
5 O: n8 t" u! }. j" S9 o, z
8 q1 S9 r \1 n& RDon't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
|