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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters5 B/ m, a" }% a
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.0 a% J$ t9 p G/ A7 B
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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Fine.
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# ]9 j$ C3 Y% \) T3 @This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.3 b5 W& Z% ~1 D: g1 z
9 h# {2 {$ G, E8 u: h1 T( CNot bad.6 S! _7 d1 t3 X D2 W; @7 }. }, w
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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3 ~2 k# G" [$ w' UFine, thanks.
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.9 g1 [. B* Q- Z8 x) i
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Very well, thanks.. i% m" F ]$ X- N
6 b4 g: _* A# z) F- hA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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1 H0 P% b- @$ d7 l4 V# |If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.8 r; P) j6 R' N+ W! Q1 ]
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Great! How are you doing?- B7 B0 Y8 |& u, R
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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6 h* q E& L; K; [- B- B3 H, o; UI'm hanging in there.; d) X6 I+ b5 I4 e" b" a2 f
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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I've been better.$ V0 B2 e) j" h, d0 A
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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A: How are you?: [0 f; _5 y( J8 p! N& I
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A: What's wrong? w# h$ ^' K( ?" k% m, m" l& f
8 L0 J1 E" {$ j/ S( LB: I just found out that I'm being laid off./ ]5 B2 \9 H( e- P6 Q- I- g. S
5 [; z+ x9 I3 ^! u7 |) U( LHow's it going?
% W4 o; L: Q: u& s: c/ ZThis question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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4 B: R2 {0 \8 C- p( g6 {$ t* I NHere's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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It's going well.
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. l: u% G* ?: c7 H3 F
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This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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Nothing much.
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! C4 ^. Z! O8 i; n" rThis is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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{$ D- V6 {8 {9 _( Z/ gNot a lot. o& I( l9 c3 `' T* v. @
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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Nothing.
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2 Y# @( d6 j" e$ _* AThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.& U% M( ]% c, ~& j+ P& k/ | O
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8 R9 v9 _! z8 j: h9 RAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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Just the same old same old.8 r0 T5 E8 O5 b) Y- d0 v
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.1 C& Z: Y- G/ Q1 a7 C/ t
$ G( I8 y1 v! {, ^: G5 eOh gosh, all kinds of stuff!8 a% k+ u4 ~3 U+ c& r4 w
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You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.& U% b8 Q# o: N" Q Y5 y
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What's happening?
; |: |( @( G% H. W; wThis question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.3 K/ q( W8 o! Z% _0 t% U
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