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5 S# @3 b, C8 o# LHow to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters' t7 Q" u+ t. Z) }- @& `- L
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.: B& U/ R# i& ]/ J5 y4 y: E. w
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"+ ~5 R, U) M* a: b8 j
. `! P1 c0 g% MHow are you?
- D1 ?" O2 \+ d2 A# T0 _* d2 WFine.
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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& H# V- \ X2 c) [Not bad.
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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Fine, thanks.& q+ z( v, S1 a. w: u7 ^8 P( U# h
- T$ I0 \# h6 }This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.% z) ?' y, Y5 B; f% j8 \
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Very well, thanks.
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.# G9 J* [7 z; I% r5 `3 C7 k
) c: y1 o2 y; U/ N8 d |Pretty good.
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If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.5 P5 f M# `% y/ Z
9 r! J% o# @! `Great! How are you doing? d1 ^( J. N$ r" Y+ b) `, Z6 P
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.2 [* f1 [9 C" }) A/ c1 ^5 U3 ^% s
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I'm hanging in there.9 i7 T8 t7 c" z. _, R
0 ^# R) s r. a1 jThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.( N% o0 W( C6 G
7 {( A1 p! q, d+ nI've been better.
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:- H+ z; K; J/ W0 D
$ S: Z' W+ u K# kA: How are you?% U2 q, h* D; i& U* ]
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B: I've been better.
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3 J& O7 H- _7 r3 a/ @, MA: What's wrong?# u! `$ I7 x: f" \* A/ j
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.' t" `* w8 d9 [% N, X1 ~! x8 {
, {# E& x) u* j/ l( X* w7 [8 cHow's it going?- C' F0 H# _ T4 Y$ W/ t2 K
This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.& Q+ l( v/ L/ V: k: H' Y
! e. M( d$ h0 i) nHere's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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It's going well. 5 w; B( I r/ @4 I$ ]
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. % B( @+ v1 p9 S$ f/ E8 S( Z
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What's up?
8 W8 T$ A- _# {1 qThis question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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Nothing much.
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% o) P1 o) W% m; \This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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& q. F7 [& }5 i! B; |Not a lot.
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.0 |: i4 L* b/ |
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3 O2 j: q& X! U9 C2 tThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude., s; N+ _9 q' u) z7 p; U
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Oh, just the usual.
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Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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- M9 S/ m- C0 p9 r4 FJust the same old same old.
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: } Q2 a; q. c- q- DThis phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it. W+ |3 z9 z1 }: i/ L: ?
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Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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5 E0 J: M8 _' J1 {8 z* {! }You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.5 T' @- u# E: ^. U7 h. }
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This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way." {# q4 I) q1 Q1 F9 H
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