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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
7 ]; s$ _0 S% w# @( m1 n2 Peach morning by eight o'clock, with his hair fashionably coifed and
# c1 y( g$ \0 G2 m5 fshaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a
' [8 D1 u2 G! X0 O7 M; Tnursing home today. 1 ^6 S0 q! o- E8 t
; t4 C8 a# M- B% _' xHis wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.
u! e' Q2 P9 t7 RAfter many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home,
+ W5 Z2 [1 I' z5 U5 Q2 V1 Whe smiled sweetly when told his room was ready.
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As he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual / b6 {& U6 ?) i1 c) [
description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been % |' l# R0 D& Y5 P4 V' U
hung on his window. 2 T( i. W0 n [; }2 r2 _8 h3 s
2 o0 [# z# H& r9 z# \! c) t"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having ; s w% i+ \. S+ A9 K6 K* _0 d
just been presented with a new puppy.
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/ L& ]3 c1 \2 `9 x! Q"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait." 5 R4 L5 E- m: {, R1 I. D2 u
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"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied.
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"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my * c; Y+ u/ p+ [/ r- D5 y; R
room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged ... it's how ; \' t( v4 Q& n
I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it."
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It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up.
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I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I $ `* | o0 m2 |
have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed
* ^4 r6 o3 H4 J/ B9 g; Mand be thankful for the ones that do. 5 T/ h: k. K0 A7 H
& v8 _+ W8 e; aEach day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new
+ @3 {# U( }5 z/ sday and all the happy memories I've stored away.
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% j* Z( Y$ b" V8 T* W- N/ GJust for this time in my life. 1 X. q- S9 s A1 h' s: Q
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Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in.
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So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank
& z+ c: K9 q9 X8 D0 S" Taccount of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank.
" m3 H3 G* J/ x2 yI am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
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. [0 ~4 M3 u" \+ A8 d 1. Free your heart from hatred. 2 I& i) x. t- r+ W4 b3 D! i w
2. Free your mind from worries. 7 g3 L" e3 f$ {# I% O' n
3. Live simply. , i( {0 Q. n* k
4. Give more.
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