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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
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nursing home today.
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.
/ E7 d$ v( o3 C( `$ fAfter many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home,
4 u/ U8 M1 J& [/ X! Qhe smiled sweetly when told his room was ready. + Q2 f$ P0 k' r& `
. b8 B, I+ F6 O" h$ I! }& }( C( PAs he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual
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0 O( F3 h1 T2 `! z"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having
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"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait." 4 ] }/ u! C; I# N0 I7 f2 O( \
, A- n7 _& ?4 ^- U, b7 H/ M"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied. 5 [9 G* ]0 \& q) F1 C
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"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my / e3 F& `; L8 m# T- i. y7 e
room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged ... it's how : M# q! R2 {2 B/ V8 y
I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it." " H7 @, u [0 S* e- ] d
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It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. 6 I0 h; o% z" _4 q+ W1 C3 e
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I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I % A6 T/ H9 F3 ~" c$ |3 q
have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed
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Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new
9 K1 V7 W- V6 Z8 w; d/ Gday and all the happy memories I've stored away.
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% Z2 f0 ]' Z+ ?* ~" ?. X% aJust for this time in my life.
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Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in.
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So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank ( Z0 ], p( L' E4 f* @
account of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank.
3 r- I- m6 n: FI am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy: % w& L) a+ k" h* |6 t" q: ?* B
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1. Free your heart from hatred.
: z7 N. R0 o! O+ P) k, M 2. Free your mind from worries. : }7 E; z2 J# ~# F4 c
3. Live simply. & T6 A% f0 W- z4 T; u
4. Give more. ; L% S# U9 J6 T* w a2 o3 h# E
5. Expect less. |
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