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发表于 2006-6-2 16:53 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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One day, when I was a freshman in high school,
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I saw a kid from my class was walking home from school.: x' Q* y* w6 a+ g/ H9 h' }9 M

0 Q5 e* h/ W' Q# MHis name was Kyle.
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9 X  T. r0 v8 _+ [# P3 R+ f4 z5 dIt looked like he was carrying all of his9 ~) R5 {& W8 H8 ?- y& x
Books., F$ l) ]. o7 ?( Y% b0 A1 ]5 V
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I thought to myself, "Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday?
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6 M% ?: S; F; a) |He must really be a nerd."
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- h5 {" l/ \0 D7 QI had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on.
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+ y; t7 p# h1 n" _- `3 O$ wAs I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him.
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) p4 q% g8 ]6 k$ Z# a& l- P" B6 sThey ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt.& ]' P4 ]; p* P( _6 A
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His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him.
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He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes  R7 a- y7 n; V* ^

5 }; {, M' @% r( M) U: iMy heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him and as he crawled around looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye.# `- C$ m2 i1 o8 X
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As I handed him his glasses, I said, "Those guys are jerks.  \9 [3 z8 }6 o4 D4 f/ X7 o

2 G  `1 c; o, S) k* g# i3 L( dThey really should get lives.
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" He looked at me and said, "Hey thanks!"4 \+ d9 N5 T% |5 ]
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There was a big smile on his face.7 o$ U. K( R2 B4 V  k7 }9 m
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It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude.
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I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived.
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As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before.# s" S5 h" d& u8 f6 [8 n
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He said he had gone to private school before now.
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I would have never hung out with a private school kid before.3 e$ c2 w" B' C
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We talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books.
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% Y" Y' m. ~% ]0 UHe turned out to be a pretty cool kid.) D0 w) g9 h- R, W
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I asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my friends.' P% h+ N" n9 _1 e4 L

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We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him, and my friends thought the same of him.; D( k1 Q. m- p3 Y' E7 H5 n! w& H7 `* ~
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Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again.+ a# B: z8 T9 V8 P' x( a; _8 W
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I stopped him and said, "Boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday!
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" He just laughed and handed me half the books.
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- V( p9 W7 B3 j+ I6 l- @# W& x+ `6 }Over the next four years, Kyle and I became best friends.! Z4 E* E1 l9 }" E1 U

* t9 g1 X6 v7 P( J; h. W9 c  S6 pWhen we were seniors, we began to think. n' \% L2 Z' c( c& Q0 [
About college.
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Kyle decided on Georgetown, and I# p: l& H) f3 o6 w& x5 z* K( P2 W
Was going to Duke.  Z2 m* R) O4 b; G

: K7 k! Y. I# E0 z" H/ w, w3 M* tI knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be a problem.1 S6 m0 G% b& Y" a
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He was going to be a doctor, and I was going for business on a football scholarship.. N& Q0 r, G7 w2 C
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Kyle was valedictorian of our class." H) ~" ]6 F* t" L( j& d1 n

) C3 Z+ D6 f2 hI teased him all the time about being a nerd.
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He had to prepare a speech for graduation.0 `* f* g8 z% \. ]$ z' D
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I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak
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Graduation day, I saw Kyle.
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He looked great.
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He was one of those guys that really found himself during high school.( }' @: @- U2 R  D+ [

* }# B6 \; E  V0 {He filled out and actually looked good in glasses.( Q4 Y# H2 x, {2 [# u  n$ M
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He had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him.
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Boy, sometimes I was jealous.
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Today was one of those days.
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I could see that he was nervous about his speech.
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So, I smacked him on the back and said, "Hey, big guy, you'll be great!"
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* ]4 i' J0 Z) I0 b$ ~, ^4 r  iHe looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one) and smiled.
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$ t. C0 p6 W" r" g0 T1 J4 a2 K. q"Thanks," he said.# ?3 N4 z. [$ b; P. Y

+ d% q: G: y: N5 _' U  F! r3 V- S0 {As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began$ P, J$ _& l3 S. g2 L( Z+ O
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"Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years.
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Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach...but mostly your friends...
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Friend to someone is the best gift you can give them.! s% V1 a# j/ \

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) \1 ~5 m9 }" T# [# ~I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the story of the first day we met.
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+ k2 n/ U6 }, [! R6 SHe had planned to kill himself over the weekend.9 H% m/ z; X; b4 H- @( M  i
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He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home.
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3 ]0 }$ w4 j1 x6 E6 o' yHe looked hard at me and gave me a little smile.  H) ]5 A% f# ]. N9 S( D  ?

' j( m. C% G. k5 S3 k"Thankfully, I was saved.% v5 O* z- i& j" `
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My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable."1 e' I% B+ T: \1 @
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I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all about his weakest moment.! n- U2 y; R; n3 B) K: @

: @: ]) I( W* B1 {' C; W/ II saw his Mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile.  L. y3 [3 V# K, c" K6 I% l

% w' o/ W4 e6 F, [Not until that moment did I realize it's depth.6 E8 K, M) b4 c2 X

$ j: x  A& k, k* l* }5 J5 PNever underestimate the power of your actions.
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With one small gesture you can change a person's life.
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For better or for worse.5 N7 _; Y: B) {8 n( m1 }, j
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God puts us all in each other's lives to impact one another in some way.
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Look for God in others.
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You now have two choices, you can:( o: |( K4 I2 T, k/ E3 W7 s

8 ^) |$ ?/ N% I' @+ V3 |1) Pass this on to your friends or/ M1 `, H/ \# D& ]6 _1 n

9 u  g% r+ Z0 B; ?' p% w8 B- f. j9 n2) Delete it and act like it didn't touch your heart.- v' [4 R0 K# ]) p  v/ w
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As you can see, I took choice number 1.
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There is no beginning or end.. Yesterday is history.) B6 v5 ?9 Y8 ^% ?4 k

# Z5 ~" e/ x0 _. I. CTomorrow is mystery.$ ?. Z) P7 f' p0 {" v) z: {( O( p
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Today is a gift.
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; }0 J: b3 I7 l* w1 }1 BIt's National Friendship Week. Show your friends how much you care. Send this to everyone you consider a FRIEND., O7 f4 o: Z9 E* {/ m$ F, t
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If it comes back to you, then you'll know you have a circle of friends.
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发表于 2006-6-2 22:16 | 显示全部楼层
Yesterday is history.
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Tomorrow is mystery.
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8 r, y3 A. F/ k% x) YToday is a gift.
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