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One day, when I was a freshman in high school,
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6 w! a' k$ E& U6 c2 NI saw a kid from my class was walking home from school.' {4 M( H { F6 g
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His name was Kyle.
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5 J. `6 E0 a f- k5 ^9 UIt looked like he was carrying all of his( H2 B2 }/ p! I9 [, q0 E8 I' s
Books., Z& @5 P' s E$ u! c5 K+ I! r+ X7 T
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I thought to myself, "Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday?6 J, J; k/ h& B# S
; Z1 F" Z! M+ O* y6 ]! `He must really be a nerd."
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I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on.
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As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him.1 \# Y$ A2 ?6 }/ W+ |% q* D# f
# ]: o/ G6 m! N1 {# S# @They ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt.5 L) ~1 X" s1 F
: S2 j F/ u. ?+ g5 M& bHis glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him.+ Z0 y" D( [ y) R$ v7 m" H& R
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He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes
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My heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him and as he crawled around looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye.1 w! p. I& k3 h
; S- Q* ^1 b8 N* ^, y- vAs I handed him his glasses, I said, "Those guys are jerks.
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They really should get lives.
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" He looked at me and said, "Hey thanks!"
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8 ~$ g& y1 G1 YThere was a big smile on his face.
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& V) E$ K. V! W# J4 F0 ?" H' J% yIt was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude.
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I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived.
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2 r. ]! s- N: Q" d- fAs it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before.
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. u! i- I& p% b" Y8 W0 BHe said he had gone to private school before now.
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* y, T7 G$ X1 b7 M* VI would have never hung out with a private school kid before.
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We talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books.: {' G4 ~& J e( H
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He turned out to be a pretty cool kid.
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/ M# ?' f6 a' @0 m+ a- bI asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my friends.
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) O3 S& c8 s' kHe said yes.
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We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him, and my friends thought the same of him.
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% y8 U! u( o$ g* V0 OMonday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again.
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+ D: r# @* ]& P) b- e# ^I stopped him and said, "Boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday!0 F! p/ w2 N# ~/ [6 @
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" He just laughed and handed me half the books.
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- G" t' Y/ h8 ?! AOver the next four years, Kyle and I became best friends.
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; |1 H4 P! J3 F' gWhen we were seniors, we began to think" z/ F# h& W1 X+ v( }
About college.
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2 c( E O3 t/ q. zKyle decided on Georgetown, and I
, S0 g& \* B2 d! q) f; b) P0 gWas going to Duke.
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% z! @3 I, {$ [" V6 Q5 \/ c9 i! T4 xI knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be a problem.
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" H8 T5 Q: p" h" dHe was going to be a doctor, and I was going for business on a football scholarship.
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Kyle was valedictorian of our class.* J$ {3 H& t3 n+ I7 r9 y$ m! |
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He had to prepare a speech for graduation.; v( b( g8 E @% R8 h1 e* @. Q3 ^# [
* R' F, M6 p' n8 ]I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak; w" g, H3 z0 D# ]
, q) m- \# H" r5 N5 tGraduation day, I saw Kyle.
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He looked great.# [, B" j) _. `, W' K V& T$ n% W, s
2 T& O1 K/ l5 [, G( h2 w0 LHe was one of those guys that really found himself during high school.
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He filled out and actually looked good in glasses., e( M2 H$ w2 i
* L" u/ ~% @ ~0 O, o, d' T q' l6 FHe had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him.
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. g! K5 {" Z& KBoy, sometimes I was jealous.
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Today was one of those days.
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" }9 ~( A; Z! D2 CI could see that he was nervous about his speech.
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So, I smacked him on the back and said, "Hey, big guy, you'll be great!"1 E5 k1 a m$ @% i1 S. U
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He looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one) and smiled.
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) X E! C1 M, U6 \6 s* t"Thanks," he said.% f* P) f5 H8 _0 e% ~7 a
' a7 W/ ~( h# g& Z0 GAs he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began: a5 A# ~" o' ]3 y* Q1 Q+ @
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"Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years.
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# H$ E& h4 e5 XYour parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach...but mostly your friends...+ z$ B6 N% T* D; m; ~% P- M- e8 E
& J) s! A0 P" |" U* c0 t; dI am here to tell all of you that being a
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I am going to tell you a story."
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I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the story of the first day we met.5 Q1 Y! b! [ q( k. i
Y0 {& S/ B: o( i. iHe had planned to kill himself over the weekend.! c4 Z: Q D/ j' y7 |: j
! d/ Y( Z. D7 L. ~ ^, `* qHe talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home.
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He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile.8 b( U f5 n S! r
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"Thankfully, I was saved.6 S& m1 |# q3 A2 I9 A# ^8 W$ u2 J% P/ Y
* g' { N W/ ^8 n7 {! kMy friend saved me from doing the unspeakable."& t: ~# @6 J4 E9 q
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I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all about his weakest moment.1 N) e! H/ V# j! }8 G; `0 Z
2 J! T8 |$ z, { ^6 N" q' ZI saw his Mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile.
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Not until that moment did I realize it's depth.; o* T3 e0 s7 v+ f/ k: ^
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Never underestimate the power of your actions.. j+ b1 d1 Z$ R# h- r* I
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With one small gesture you can change a person's life.
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1 _" L- N9 T$ w# z9 b, b# ?# oFor better or for worse.( ~0 [( L0 Y/ n/ h7 b5 l
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God puts us all in each other's lives to impact one another in some way.
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Look for God in others.% f2 c- X0 d9 u. l' ^( J% @# `
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You now have two choices, you can:. h8 i+ ~4 r; B0 i% \! w; Y
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1) Pass this on to your friends or4 K. E% R* n9 L8 [* X5 G
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2) Delete it and act like it didn't touch your heart.
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As you can see, I took choice number 1.9 \- L4 Q0 a; S& h3 x0 S0 S
"Friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly."
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8 t1 D2 g& Z. ]; o/ \; A; mThere is no beginning or end.. Yesterday is history.
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6 L, f+ s- \/ ^, W5 S3 d0 vTomorrow is mystery.5 ]9 Z/ c+ B0 l
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Today is a gift.$ ?! @7 g% v! V' q3 [4 g. T
- @% ~' D A) @ Q% rIt's National Friendship Week. Show your friends how much you care. Send this to everyone you consider a FRIEND.$ X8 p. i3 n: K# @; V! N
$ x6 e0 E+ `( c* iIf it comes back to you, then you'll know you have a circle of friends. |
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