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Touching words from the mouths of babes. N1 |, g [. K$ M# v
What does 'Love' mean?
' c1 ]8 \8 @8 Z+ F) PA group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, 'What does 'love' mean?'" K F7 ~* F- p3 L; L/ s4 V+ ~
The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think:
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'When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore.2 [3 B3 {& N+ q
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So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love.'
: p( r8 b% f; f$ cRebecca- age 8( M: Q9 P+ H8 O! ?, w& }2 P$ g( P! ~
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" S0 B! U! N( m5 a'When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.
8 \6 q5 \9 I& [) lYou just know that your name is safe in their mouth.'4 H _5 U5 S' |2 q- b9 P9 x/ b
Billy - age 4/ b* I* G- |: f
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7 i% b: r1 Q+ Z; A'Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.'2 V" T4 {6 o: ?
Karl - age 5
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, ~! {; X0 R/ j, T9 I" |' O+ Z'Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.'
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'Love is what makes you smile when you're tired.'
2 Y9 w# C2 F7 {6 I/ f8 N. r1 `3 a) ]Terri - age 4* T- C9 ^+ v, h) N0 p8 E' T
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'Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.'
: _, M' o% Q8 R6 f' k jDanny - age 7
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) G3 p3 x0 N! E& A'Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more.& _. n& g; L3 [9 U; R
My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss'
q: c- c4 V& QEmily - age 8
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'Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.'
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' C' ^; `5 ^- A4 B# v, h'If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,'8 ?& x6 u' P# i D" ?# T1 b7 }
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Nikka - age 6
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# d! F. E" A) ~/ Q4 S) u'Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.'2 G- F. s1 i$ L- M) \( A
Noelle - age 7 J- T5 ^4 H: R' T- A% F* A! W& |
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9 b! Z' q9 t& T* {1 G% C'Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.'
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) y# m7 D. P. D5 A- v8 b7 E5 N'During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling.6 }, ~: i" i+ ?% ` Y% V8 {) _
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He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore.'
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( g# K+ H; h, Y9 V$ a2 g4 T7 x1 y'My mommy loves me more than anybody
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Y3 }2 q6 d- f. }: _You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.'
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'Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.'
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'Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.'
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'Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day'# L" P m$ Q! {' ]+ L5 l) N
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'I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.'
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'When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.' (what an image)4 y3 r0 {' d; g5 T
Karen - age 7
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! }/ w* }0 ]" k3 ~! V'You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.'. ~3 F) w) |. ^6 U" y& F/ A
Jessica - age 8
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And the final one -- Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge.
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The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child.
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( Y8 b6 |+ r- Q; `) r8 Z9 xThe winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.
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7 {# z- @/ \% H4 L8 pUpon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.
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