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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to
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them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
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think of you.
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5 m4 o$ j( b1 a8 pUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first$ M3 f1 f5 U& _8 ~2 L8 U6 d z
names:
' ~& m+ V1 _6 b- R1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.6 ]' a5 I P5 `5 H N
2) The second second: Don't think about what to- Q3 `4 b3 O7 S* Z
say—listen for the name.
& T1 O* D5 e& A5 {. z3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud." e( A2 P1 H/ O9 T1 }
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
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end of the conversation./ A2 w! m a: @9 u
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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