The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to . K" [9 f; I9 b5 u; F/ Z# pfocus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear " Y) }5 j% ~( B( q4 w4 Jthem in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what% p$ s) E6 r1 Y3 ]2 y9 s
you're going to say next or worrying about what others will1 R5 m- X$ E& a G
think of you. 2 n) [6 r. d# Q- T' v! K f/ x1 g2 o* w" I4 x
Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first ; ~1 b% Z; {9 ]1 c( I, e/ enames:' e3 f* P& F6 \6 j0 X1 o
1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction. 6 k* d0 k; a; Z; d/ \& B6 z5 E# z2) The second second: Don't think about what to ) }3 }& P8 S/ _' V- ysay—listen for the name.* K1 ^" H M! d/ h. c
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.6 f4 A' e1 k* h. ~8 o2 t( A
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know/ ?) O% [3 j1 A" k2 M# A9 o& v! ~
with the same name. P" V3 B( _4 H' K5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the 3 E3 M) m2 o; h1 e6 y' uend of the conversation. / E7 G2 ~4 D) z" t3 M 1 @( Q5 X' s( N---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>>