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& n" n: b* z0 j8 n! b7 w) F~SOMETIMES~
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* P& N1 x6 E8 Y6 bSometimes people come into your life
: P$ s+ J8 L4 C5 Qyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
6 _- U- N& D* K s X! fto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,- y; i0 A- v5 v& Y) H
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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; e. o8 c: ?! v- v4 k( r2 hYou never know who these people may be/ `) O# p2 `- C, R" j; {( I3 v
but when you lock eyes with them,
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1 C1 C w' X) A& F3 h4 T2 AThey will affect your life in some profound way
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0 v" ^ _! v$ P1 L# U+ x7 S: Q1 ^They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
. H" }* v6 Y3 ~8 i' {$ SThey are there for the reason you need them to be.
- k5 h5 j+ D7 B9 iThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.1 M r% b' ~/ S+ M- \( o6 V2 C
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.9 K5 T& A/ m& \. I& E
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,. o) w7 a3 B. J `; Z
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
/ T) g' [3 K) {) f+ p( ]1 PThe prayer you sent up has been answered.- D7 y: k2 s" X6 b& s
And now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON, `3 U% B) s. y
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. Y3 C7 ]; o W1 q9 O
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.+ U# U& _% M# H# H; S
They may teach you something you have never done.2 w3 [2 c+ v, C' k( q. e1 F2 m
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
0 d9 Z( @7 @& m' dBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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- d+ g2 ^5 ?* n7 U. i6 SLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
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Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.* x _" ]1 ?$ e/ c( Q0 }6 K
Everything happens for a reason.
) M r( b: p. tNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.$ E/ v* f/ k( o! ]9 a4 t& e4 e
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
0 l1 A {" q6 D- {and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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; Y; `! k% A. k2 XIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,) T/ G5 r% w2 S8 u1 K( o
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
6 V9 v; ^5 S0 g) x! fIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
5 N; M) q# o6 }( K* b) Vfor they have helped you learn about trust4 k$ u! z) y* V" v# ]
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
_ ?# X% U* b5 TIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,
% B* }2 [2 _1 u$ ~4 Y2 ~$ qTry to love them back unconditionally,) l) X( U" l9 a9 I4 b% _8 X
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
7 a6 p; V! l6 K% f! b2 @they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.! }! e/ W; j/ w: L# I3 v3 ?
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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& r# ]* Y' L' z Uand a time to every purpose under the sun.
7 r3 y4 O8 a6 l5 G% T. zA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
; l5 q" Y) p8 O0 i* U5 j$ Hand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."% J3 n5 M& I$ E+ ]+ Z) e ]
God's grace is as a healing hand.4 c6 \, t& U# w2 r3 q
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,% N# V: W7 a9 l, \$ q; {
the warm memories and love for those we have lost; t, H; a/ h' L T3 U$ d# z
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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