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/ Q) R3 b5 C8 k; s" G$ WSometimes people come into your life3 }3 q: w9 Y) A0 b. s
you know right away that they were meant to be there,: r6 }: ^ j9 @, ^5 y! ^4 ^# j0 C- O
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,$ Z2 d5 o& C6 A6 j" V4 U5 |0 @
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.0 b6 h! F' F+ z1 j2 d3 [
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You never know who these people may be# q) ~$ {; `+ l4 E- V9 w
but when you lock eyes with them,
3 C5 Z7 e8 B8 g: a' Myou know at that very moment,6 Q9 X/ D3 W4 E
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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( f/ ^9 o, w& |; jThey may seem like a godsend, and they are! B9 Q+ X( E( K- M. O
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
% Z5 L8 A9 L4 L9 C' e1 gThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
+ ^( p6 }1 U0 C- B) D+ h8 C4 dSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.; c' P6 `4 G/ _0 t- ^6 E
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.7 C V( A! f0 ]: V* E- K' W
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4 K, U+ }7 k) H" q8 AWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,
- C4 a2 |3 ]+ N! u) J U! v6 Hour desire fulfilled, their work is done.
; p1 \6 r, `5 a/ b' L, Q4 R: qThe prayer you sent up has been answered.: h4 N) O7 Y4 \1 E5 {0 ^
And now it is time for you to move on.4 I1 s$ W" {& @
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
8 }2 Q: t% I. E7 IBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
$ b; ~; c5 c4 d' [They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
9 e1 T( Z0 @; H$ uThey may teach you something you have never done.# x9 P( R% G# B
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.- o b1 J" q' w$ x4 i
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:; }7 F s3 d" O+ b1 }, {! B' D7 q
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
4 d' U' V- X3 ~( c$ HPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
/ ^: L" ] Y9 @3 }$ J; FEverything happens for a reason.
" r$ U4 f! w- K. Y$ ^+ ?Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
+ n6 G- n5 e+ E1 n& H7 R2 gIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
0 m1 ]# g3 v: W8 L4 Hand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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v- h5 Z1 V! V5 l( A" E9 Z' i4 u6 fIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,$ p5 ~$ h$ F7 I ^% N% ]: d
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,1 E' b; h7 N1 o6 u$ R
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
7 t7 O/ x1 K( t& r2 c( v' ^for they have helped you learn about trust7 d# K6 S3 q9 h: ~9 m& X+ A
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
1 Q7 F) w6 b9 C: r9 Q6 _% B) ^If someone loves you, express your appreciation,' J4 x# g0 Q( m% y% Z6 T$ \% r0 A
Try to love them back unconditionally,
$ {+ H7 u9 o9 }8 hnot only because they love you, but because in a way,
" O; c9 e# d k N7 lthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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) n4 d4 s% p- d, f& [The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,/ A$ \$ H5 U0 j. @
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and a time to every purpose under the sun." ]2 n2 B+ d* s$ o
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,+ R3 b$ v0 w/ r' Z& d4 \% h0 t" N
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
$ @ _* t( q7 y3 m9 _God's grace is as a healing hand.
+ y2 f* Y# q3 m c; i8 Z0 A5 G* hAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air," Y6 {( n% n; k2 {; i1 Y$ @5 X0 D
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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