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' K7 [+ w1 d Z4 @) s~SOMETIMES~
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. u, d9 _/ }5 ~' ASometimes people come into your life
4 E+ h( I' P5 {6 Q) X: `5 D% nyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
% g1 ^' ?- s9 ~/ H; H6 Gto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
& {1 N& E7 {: _, Gor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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- t: G6 w9 M4 ]2 F, uYou never know who these people may be! y: Z8 v4 m! \/ m y
but when you lock eyes with them,
3 K* v+ m0 h, H' \( x9 G. }you know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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. U- |( d0 i( y" ^ gThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!
; G) I! ]0 E" t8 l) } YThey are there for the reason you need them to be.! v- W; v1 h: i, y: z) ?
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
- |2 \ u/ {9 l2 i3 h3 @ ~Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
8 P2 z+ h& a0 ?3 _/ z; X1 ?/ qSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,: W* u; U4 W: h
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.6 Z. q! E8 o$ V$ r5 p$ Q9 C$ Y# r/ L
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
1 K) I: N# f9 w) F; ~And now it is time for you to move on., j2 Q- R- r; f1 r" U1 g9 n" L$ G
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, `" O7 Q: E8 \6 G3 I NThen people come into your life for a REASON
# W& c0 O7 P! ?: z1 w: |Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.8 X. W. M! e3 T1 c; q
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
$ P- ]) ]# {9 o9 f. l$ @They may teach you something you have never done.) c6 o. g7 [) m+ h
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.& K6 G( @% k" y2 o) m
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦. s- {' s2 d* a5 x: u
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
: e% Z0 d; w6 d, {& v! \Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
' D- z6 m" v" M9 w, {Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.! g: O' X$ f5 p4 h, K; L
Everything happens for a reason.; U, }7 y" F* a. w8 d R2 [5 h
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.8 b2 R( C F' {
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,7 u! z+ b3 h4 N# p# n
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.: y$ X2 c$ R. L( i
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! [( t- ~0 T8 [( V/ X: }If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful," W4 |7 U, R. Y3 I6 g" Y% _5 D
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,. j9 L+ U- Z( ~3 f# N! f+ W) z
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
. j6 a u3 }6 C+ W3 a/ W0 yfor they have helped you learn about trust& S6 U& U6 o; `8 J8 k
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
' N5 f+ s- v% _/ V! k+ X8 M9 d* MIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,5 f1 e& M9 [' n) I: G9 q( n; N
Try to love them back unconditionally,' C" y- [ Y6 {- l) h3 `$ @( y* ^6 ]
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
@; i3 N' O/ Z- b5 othey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.2 Z' V- T! {1 M" T& j- ~3 _# N
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,0 z% b7 y3 L1 y! e B, e
+ D* c$ ^% y6 i1 b9 t0 _3 ~and a time to every purpose under the sun.- s4 }" ~. i/ m( `1 y* ^' q# V4 \
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
/ d3 @' q& p aand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."# y0 _: }' H. z7 r
God's grace is as a healing hand.) Y, W% s& A' x c
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,% ?/ f: Y4 B$ W. Z. ^/ q G1 r
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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