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~SOMETIMES~
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% p: h4 y$ w, m9 [ B% BSometimes people come into your life: |* R5 A$ e* }* P$ m6 i, V
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
* a" Z: I% D3 f5 r$ u. {4 xto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,5 k4 y ?4 C& E6 a3 P" `2 D
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be; H3 h# ?* y7 G/ e8 E* O, p! y
but when you lock eyes with them,% J+ c1 j! H, \
you know at that very moment,- W2 A& @5 I3 d" b/ }: [' Q* Y
" H* n* u( E2 x' K8 Z* M5 wThey will affect your life in some profound way( M" k7 @$ p; V
0 b' D0 p* \# P9 v, y* A" ]: \They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
- R5 b' _" Q" ^) IThey are there for the reason you need them to be.: o( r U. s# T) W3 l% p1 ^9 W
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,) @/ c" C7 D/ u/ o( D
# e- I5 D5 E7 ?, ~The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
( p4 V1 m' L8 c' ?$ ZSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.4 Z8 Z; l, F9 D# ^) N0 ~7 v
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,- u) K* Z5 {7 h! ^8 I- A
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
. R3 i3 ~* o M- S/ `The prayer you sent up has been answered.
9 z) i9 [" [. UAnd now it is time for you to move on.& m$ Y- f% b% @7 Y/ Z% w9 I
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
L: }9 `5 ~+ s; RBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.+ ?* Q; x* t: l) i& ^ o3 |7 p
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.6 ?( i S- a0 ~) j; n
They may teach you something you have never done.
5 o+ A3 n, O9 a/ T' MThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
' s' J! V+ ?; L* p) jBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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# r# v. u1 P( eLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:. H8 z B) H+ i" I* K( U6 z
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
! q, s& H9 H# y' H$ VPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
5 h5 U$ i5 g. V7 d( B% B9 \Everything happens for a reason.% R0 P; _/ b0 X# M" c# Q
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.( v1 O: ~7 O. h. G
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
. p" \" J Q0 \6 H: [and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,4 K2 V" r% n* i b
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
* I. `0 q2 e6 kIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
& N. X- m1 w! V) yfor they have helped you learn about trust
5 ]6 X9 |, O- nand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.* N) O" B5 C& C8 J2 f& A
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,' _% y: a4 V) p. s# `4 Z8 L. ?
Try to love them back unconditionally,8 d, o, s. h8 d' W+ T/ ?: ~3 b, a
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
7 w5 s }- I! xthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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" C/ [& }) w- k: p% `4 nThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,$ T: U, u2 ~& X* J
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
% R& t8 ?% E) u( N1 H; ]8 k6 {0 I1 W* AA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
+ G7 g% F4 E/ O/ }) \' t; C8 |0 rand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
& c. n; f1 E; j/ mGod's grace is as a healing hand.; {4 Z) l2 R. ?* C) H/ K
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,( @. Y" D/ M/ k$ x5 P
the warm memories and love for those we have lost8 I& D$ R0 Q# [
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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