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4 c; b; f6 G& M6 SSometimes people come into your life% O7 m% Q0 Q0 n U5 ^9 S" l! L
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
3 I% R- s0 J9 ]6 p1 L g4 {to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,3 E! U5 A; Y G, c: n y
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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, j) F( g" F2 l E+ EYou never know who these people may be- c% o- ?* r8 Z$ G* i4 }1 B
but when you lock eyes with them,
$ }! C; ` G% p, V) gyou know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way- }: K+ D& ~1 q- R, L6 a$ Y
9 r+ c% r! O5 N$ ~They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
! x) p( X1 d0 a( Y1 TThey are there for the reason you need them to be.
1 U8 s0 g/ Z, V4 ^; x& Z! yThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,8 c# ^7 i" R9 ^" g4 S, [* ~0 c% E! Q
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end./ h" C. j/ L' R. t
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.4 j2 u2 y. F S# U
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand." L6 f3 Y. m% @' D7 D) K
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
3 m; [+ P) z) [our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
0 F9 P. e/ h2 l- tThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
3 A, Q4 ~* {0 g6 XAnd now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
5 T& g6 ^( Q' u2 r2 G* DBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.+ r$ y8 \7 d6 J8 P
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
: F; s0 I: w: D0 C8 |; AThey may teach you something you have never done.2 p! i4 ^9 W/ D: R6 P* f
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. G; Z7 H$ @" E! ~( T
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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L8 a% ?7 e8 F8 d% k7 TLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
5 O; f2 B! z9 ?# GYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,7 Y, E, ~9 d& }5 o3 F
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.4 P; H7 G0 H& g/ I% X& N- i
Everything happens for a reason.
; K/ d2 o: M+ d$ M' i; n6 G4 L' ]Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.4 V, I' T/ p8 j9 l
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,& X0 G2 r3 }0 u1 q
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.. @ V5 g4 E/ m+ Y! ?: K) A3 C
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,1 t* p' S$ H" z/ H
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,' U: u c2 C. W( L
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
6 B: {" ~' m! {' p; ?9 I6 gfor they have helped you learn about trust2 y* m7 u' v' R }6 n
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
# H7 ?# B! F9 jIf someone loves you, express your appreciation," l+ Q' n" l8 x; D/ A! C
Try to love them back unconditionally,, j2 Q% u& a3 z/ c; j8 k2 _
not only because they love you, but because in a way, l( R( h0 h# ~, J) g' w* F' W
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,' S9 s' q2 ]! | I7 L3 D; n
! n2 Q0 K5 Q" y5 V, Qand a time to every purpose under the sun.
3 O: k% f) {: Q8 e2 v7 X4 n4 c5 dA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
2 N( y- k- [: F0 p6 t( Aand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."2 i, C& G- A' A( Z
God's grace is as a healing hand.
( Q6 ]+ z5 I8 {" U+ B, cAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air," P" U7 `. u, i/ N% p" G$ I7 {
the warm memories and love for those we have lost, o& T% ` Z) D4 Y$ C4 r2 M6 S
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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