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A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game. , O8 Q+ N7 z% a. W0 `0 g' c
, \; k( J; I5 T8 H! W+ [The teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic " h9 t- v+ a3 g) y! l& \, p# E5 l
% n6 j7 v; | r: S7 _9 _bag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name 5 B; y" z" M N" O
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of a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that 2 t/ O o) K! F% U2 \1 `5 t7 D
, _* a/ C X0 X! A2 T+ p/ x) Ya child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number
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# {2 V( s6 v. Y# [# l! Bof people he/she hates. / [: c5 K+ A% P/ K0 n5 \- f7 o
E* x7 T6 d" D' L7 @ Y, D( ~So when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with
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the name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some
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. o6 Q x( J- a3 while some up to 5 potatoes. ! {$ v3 ]# b: H& C4 O6 W& o$ n/ k1 r
U% y. ?6 B* J2 uThe teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes B5 X' [# Q; v/ \
/ z/ s! ?. t/ Pin the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week.
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! L5 P) C" d7 H! `; M2 _2 @0 ZDays after days passed by, and the children started to complain / B+ \0 J' T+ [, O" L
! v/ _9 P; u% S/ [due to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides,
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; S& k! C4 ]* h% T# u# X2 V' Sthose having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1 3 P, h& J7 x. Q% Y0 v9 f
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week, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended. 0 l( l- p3 e" u
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The teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes
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' x9 w g* x+ _ u" t. pwith you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and * S& I0 E- l0 d @7 C( @
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started complaining of the trouble that they had to go through
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2 B. }) @' n% m. [) O' fhaving to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go. % W0 q& p3 Q* v
+ C3 J4 C' m: _Then the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game. - y% u# j) R7 y P4 d0 j
( i8 R O# Q% N+ vThe teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry 0 ]: @: {% R m# W9 n- q8 C6 g
( C% y6 l: w j5 `. Fyour hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred & L6 R7 g3 H0 }& b4 i5 J
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will contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever : O+ t; e# S, M3 o+ t2 s l, k( l4 K
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you go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just
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1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred 4 V+ x# q4 b. x4 p
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in your heart for your lifetime???" * l: n* E+ S: ~7 f9 h" a. G. J5 e
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"Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else;
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it is something you do for yourself. 3 T; E* R. l1 A7 l3 d
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Give yourself the gift of forgiveness" |
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