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! o& @# n. k C% b1 jHow to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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3 A1 H9 Y/ F( ?! x, RThere are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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. b j) a' L: h1 _5 d1 IYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"$ u# u, W/ U, p1 n* g/ A, e! d, _; C
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h- |9 K k0 sFine.
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+ V4 i% `, m2 c4 T" q/ D! hThis is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.6 P u# O8 ?# X W/ e; i8 s
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".7 c" J5 [* G) X8 X
: Y7 |9 E, f% a$ FFine, thanks.. D) U$ K2 E2 w1 g
9 q0 L, J/ l, i* I) u/ i. [This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.; \( {2 v( ?6 _& [* U" O: [
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Very well, thanks.
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6 _( R. z8 T& ^" }2 T$ c7 C; M+ ~A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.0 ^9 b; Q; v. w. p2 t
! r2 D4 K$ f+ k) E! v, v1 s' BPretty good.
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If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.
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+ ^/ t& M# c4 r2 K) {Great! How are you doing?" j3 z$ H: z9 f; |# Z: U
% A" n* u5 Y. j# QThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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I'm hanging in there.
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3 M0 _ A4 T! g1 l3 AThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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I've been better.
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( U7 m. C/ h% H7 O0 ]People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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% \8 J. i6 k1 s9 gA: How are you?- b# r' k& I% ?8 c; G* m( f& U
+ @* M3 Z* }! M3 Q( N7 IB: I've been better.
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A: What's wrong? V2 i# b7 y2 s. U, a0 c
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.. v/ y7 e8 v7 z Q- Z
" ^( O7 S) y; k9 Y9 Q. d; F2 VHow's it going?& t) |/ F8 }+ G. H# A: g3 \
This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"( a( h8 c2 O4 M
, k" W! s7 j' j. C" b- g5 CIt's going well.
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. ]7 [0 J! ^7 @( u% P8 M5 E
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What's up?
& n$ W( I5 W9 p) KThis question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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2 F" e6 b' H1 d7 @3 ]2 HNothing much.; k8 X9 |% p3 f
0 ?6 E* }1 A7 r( C" FThis is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."* b2 v( l2 o) `( Y
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Not a lot.
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.
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y1 ?3 Z1 T( B) u6 |3 t* v/ ^Oh, just the usual.
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Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.) d B9 ~' ^' H% v+ U/ t$ b
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Just the same old same old.; Y. j; V% W1 N4 P# T
& s: o% V2 Y6 TThis phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.- ~/ ^; v0 W. R. p" q' r
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Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.& h0 d6 @' M% C' I) |) Y- {
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This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.
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