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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
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shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary. 6 l5 j, n5 n9 I3 Z4 K: \" k
After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home,
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+ b9 U, p/ Q4 t$ Y$ aAs he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual 1 F$ w% a# `; S3 M+ d0 J% q
description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been ; C/ n6 M2 M4 L1 f+ U
hung on his window. ) T, R6 Y* ? T; B
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"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having
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"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait."
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6 ~3 i# }& ^; e" F7 D" n6 s$ ?"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied. ( V9 e- n3 A% k w( W
' d: e; ]* `' `6 W8 x3 i( p7 e"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my 4 i/ z. `% w5 Y( u+ B! r; }
room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged ... it's how 4 R+ u6 y! Z" D& Q0 c
I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it." 9 W6 [: C+ o% u( Z8 g
2 I" K f" v% Z' Z! _) yIt's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. " L4 u$ p) Z/ }4 O) A: h/ I% \) Q
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I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I $ e! Z1 _, i( e+ L
have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed
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7 D: I d. w" B: uEach day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new
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+ U6 |3 J: P* h, _Just for this time in my life.
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Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in.
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6 c4 Y8 C+ a. lSo, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank
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I am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
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1. Free your heart from hatred. . I. ]! F/ l$ E7 G$ J
2. Free your mind from worries. 8 t; _5 D* p' a* P: B
3. Live simply. , d$ E! ]% ]- k% ]0 q
4. Give more. 8 J6 K' @& U/ o8 x9 z8 [
5. Expect less. |
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