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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
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nursing home today.
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.
. `- F* C! G; N. @$ PAfter many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, # B7 z0 G0 u# \* `. c( W2 M1 D
he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready.
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* [7 _. z( X4 SAs he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual
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u1 Q( N0 ^# o: K5 L; X& J+ F"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having
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8 Y8 R# y2 I3 e) A# p5 R7 b"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait." % S$ N$ ~1 ~& v) f! N; x3 W
1 z3 w2 v" r) @8 s( ]/ ~"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied.
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0 `3 U- ^) x8 V4 i: R+ w"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my + ?, M1 g8 \' m3 Q
room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged ... it's how
; n) m q0 u2 q& WI arrange my mind. I already decided to love it."
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It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up.
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% p8 f' K* b; W# g. M: v7 RI have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I
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: [, S* p1 B4 p* |Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new * Y, ?$ d w7 e) d% A6 M
day and all the happy memories I've stored away. $ ^0 s- e: ~7 b0 @+ c
' H# X) L M$ R# KJust for this time in my life.
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Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in.
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8 S. @/ g( v ]: m" [+ B- HSo, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank ! f- @8 _. @' j
account of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank.
; ^" v1 d# z1 Y1 k7 f/ A$ |I am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
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# T0 M2 i2 r2 |/ X7 l* E 1. Free your heart from hatred. & _9 I5 V% G p I @
2. Free your mind from worries.
) K o( |( h# K 3. Live simply.
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5. Expect less. |
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