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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed # |8 D W& r+ }5 ~9 d
each morning by eight o'clock, with his hair fashionably coifed and ( J$ s- h% V: u: {9 m. a4 [
shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a
7 J, z: s& L/ J6 r+ P- N0 w7 U) snursing home today.
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.
- d7 v8 d0 ^; E8 {1 aAfter many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, # X7 S( f# K) d+ s, P
he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready.
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4 l. }( \/ p0 i! a# v4 l( HAs he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual . Q1 ^3 o+ T* Q8 c2 h; D
description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been : R: H9 ~0 T' {* e* ?* n7 o% L
hung on his window.
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7 q+ x( M* h7 S; A8 P0 v"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having 9 H1 p4 v- h0 X7 U
just been presented with a new puppy. : v9 \5 V1 V% c! t3 J) \ s( q
! \. c$ b+ s4 @% o# i; C+ y$ d"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait."
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# X; Q' J" P5 S7 `"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied.
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"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my
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8 U- U& P6 [. V' ~1 nI arrange my mind. I already decided to love it." / y9 @9 f- H, p1 ?2 Z
) d, w3 G5 @6 h3 D4 MIt's a decision I make every morning when I wake up.
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I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I g0 W- h! W" r2 j& p/ [, E$ W8 y
have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed 0 q8 S1 [3 S9 |7 a! u3 Z
and be thankful for the ones that do.
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Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new * \; g. N1 t2 r8 g1 @# N1 k
day and all the happy memories I've stored away.
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" c8 f5 Y) t( f3 KJust for this time in my life. 2 ^/ Y7 d7 U. l' k% E8 h9 }) E
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Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in.
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! ^6 X% p& W2 W0 NSo, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank * T) C U2 {! K8 ]2 A7 `$ r; \
account of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank. 1 W4 A3 x" Q% n8 ~& `! T0 d
I am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy: + D- Q }; z$ q- r
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1. Free your heart from hatred.
: V3 t! a( S" p# _7 @ 2. Free your mind from worries.
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4. Give more. t a9 k* X) ?4 {" b/ G' k- p
5. Expect less. |
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