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 Slow down for three minutes to read this. It is so worth it./ h, V! s# u" f/ W/ u) _+ G
Touching words from the mouths of babes.
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A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, 'What does 'love' mean?'
6 E$ C& e0 _$ p' a1 Q* C7 s; wThe answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think:) \# e1 V( W* w/ j+ J
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' q8 C- d& ~7 s+ ]! @'When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore./ C. G$ @5 d6 @; G' z+ w' o, A
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So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love.'& c5 ^% V) X" y9 T# v
Rebecca- age 8
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& s& H+ }: Y* B* ^8 D'When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different." k4 u7 E! |" m2 W V- Q; V; S. Z
You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.'% j% ^/ |. l# F6 L. B _5 f
Billy - age 4
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'Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.'; ?( x6 p# h5 B# x7 [4 Q9 \; O
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'Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.'& q4 m3 b% \+ ^8 _3 I( x
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) E! t* f; g% j5 F! t'Love is what makes you smile when you're tired.'& C! P9 d; q- C' P5 b$ p8 @# P/ N ?
Terri - age 4
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'Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.'
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'Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more.
3 l) N9 w: P' gMy Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss'+ @. O; L8 k( d# g8 `: y
Emily - age 8
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'Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.'2 \5 ?2 i, Q) D( E
Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)
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8 P, M! K( h' _: P'If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,'
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Nikka - age 67 t e2 V. \ l, N3 C4 J9 y
(we need a few million more Nikka's on this planet)
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'Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.'
2 W/ Z. ?, H% @# N1 F7 u3 P% nNoelle - age 74 z v/ b" M* t; F( T/ k4 N
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'Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.'
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He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore.'
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'My mommy loves me more than anybody! O# D$ Y+ u% i: A; h. r" C
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You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.'
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'Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.'
# _/ J, C/ E8 j" KElaine-age 5
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5 _/ U! ?8 U6 `5 f7 d- P, Q'Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.'& z; E6 U* x" T, O9 X
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'Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day'2 c8 t0 h7 t3 J$ ^2 V7 m K7 T
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' l9 t& Q: o& b'I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.'
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'When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.' (what an image)1 E7 i- J& L% C! M
Karen - age 7
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: ?* A: I( |' S4 h6 v* {' k) X'You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.'
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, @: D; |8 h5 Z9 lAnd the final one -- Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge.% E0 g( E4 w6 ~% y
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$ U# w9 }% d% AThe winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.
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Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.
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When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said,
, p$ G0 Y( q) j( O'Nothing, I just helped him cry' |
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