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 Slow down for three minutes to read this. It is so worth it.
; C$ J. \4 d5 r' c* Q) e3 bTouching words from the mouths of babes.
q6 h% J. A0 w" m+ \* QWhat does 'Love' mean?7 C# M7 M5 F# a" s" e
A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, 'What does 'love' mean?'
; Y# O4 g" H6 `% wThe answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think:; V! H) {7 ^0 O U$ ~9 r
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So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love.', N' S) L$ F# {) G+ L
Rebecca- age 86 n& C$ `$ c9 u, c* z
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7 |2 @9 y# |; H9 U5 {1 b& o: Q; _'When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.
3 G ?7 J9 l$ G/ p/ NYou just know that your name is safe in their mouth.'
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'Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.'
1 M2 O: F4 g9 A! Y/ T+ gKarl - age 5
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" J- p( r7 ^8 F$ |8 E'Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.'% U' g* M! I& r7 d1 C6 i9 w. w
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8 u5 W; g* ^8 p% R'Love is what makes you smile when you're tired.'
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+ Q+ ^* p6 G1 C: S0 r5 n'Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.'9 r" D: L# s4 X: B1 ?
Danny - age 74 k1 A" i' ~, m, j- B3 V
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'Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more.
, J0 Q' g! h* O8 W7 dMy Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss'
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'Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.'1 K% O6 ?$ e7 B/ W, L* N
Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)
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'If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,'
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Nikka - age 6
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'Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.'
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'Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.'
3 |, M( T2 D4 v% hTommy - age 6
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/ B: [" K/ G( |* G+ Z0 u7 b/ b'During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling.
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He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore.'
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'My mommy loves me more than anybody* e1 u: x9 t4 a) ~
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You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.'8 Z& N8 B- ~1 Z5 u/ U3 [
C lare - age 6
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'Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.'
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. T, G. u a h# N' V( b'Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.'
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' d0 F6 u. |. O( _9 p'Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day'' N0 q0 K& X, A e! ~
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9 G8 R- a" f! F, L'I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.'" ~+ X2 H# a0 b) K8 F4 ]
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'When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.' (what an image)
% Z6 j7 N" Z! ^ p5 j' eKaren - age 7
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9 t# x6 b6 r* ~7 ?4 \$ L'You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.'
6 R" ^* N0 J+ t1 n4 g* w0 A/ W& hJessica - age 8
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And the final one -- Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge.
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The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child.; `& R7 R# t/ B$ B7 A# H
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The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.& Z" ~' n' j* F4 |) C
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Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.# p- n& _: ~0 m' t* j
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When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said,
6 {# A& G* S$ _# s' `* @1 X9 v'Nothing, I just helped him cry' |
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