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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to( U6 f3 [) v+ X* Q9 F& n0 u
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear
. {' U0 M9 |. H. s2 ~$ E% Y8 o6 Zthem in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
* D. ~5 {: `, T9 C3 Oyou're going to say next or worrying about what others will
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' x) j! B4 y0 a. v2 Z1 |& C aUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first0 [1 }; \0 A$ F0 Q0 ^( x% b8 c
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1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
: R3 D: B# ]1 l I' u0 j$ W1 E2) The second second: Don't think about what to
# i; X) ^3 S& r2 i) usay—listen for the name.
! }4 B6 |# _7 ~. ]3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
3 o5 I- {; v# u( U/ ?4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know+ t! E+ ^- J, f2 I4 _8 r
with the same name.* J4 R% R9 J6 k$ u' n3 O& i
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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