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Sometimes people come into your life% k- V; z7 A. w( \) P
you know right away that they were meant to be there,- J/ H1 R' d1 t6 c2 }5 h6 |
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
" O9 p3 X( i% I* _or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.5 h; Q: i) @5 j; S
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You never know who these people may be+ h% t8 D$ O7 y5 w! C; m! |
but when you lock eyes with them,
8 i; v$ m) R$ Y. a. X4 iyou know at that very moment,8 o8 [" o* \% \3 {5 |; w# O
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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) R; B0 ?6 l2 G0 p, ^* @They may seem like a godsend, and they are!! O5 T0 n2 Q8 d' i; i
They are there for the reason you need them to be.3 F" V W) l# F: @ Y a
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
2 P( t, ]" n1 S7 R& WSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away. r9 R: @9 G8 [ \' k) C/ N
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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C6 S0 Y# ]! ]What we must realize is that our need has been met,
* h: q, C* R7 [' H, kour desire fulfilled, their work is done.$ v6 O2 }5 `3 d3 V9 Y. v: ^
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
$ k8 R6 c0 y' }$ |: iAnd now it is time for you to move on.5 z) i0 o6 V. p8 N J! b% y
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
9 j9 g7 g6 s# O! p; r, |2 x! S( XBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.' s) b3 V. G1 y% h( W" n8 ~
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.8 f% C3 z3 K/ {, n/ M
They may teach you something you have never done.
3 A5 O! T2 X$ V! x7 F6 g. X$ GThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. G/ Q0 D1 n5 H3 ~7 l" p( a* J
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦. r" s: I! S9 D, Z
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:2 U% h. T5 b1 s, ~ w
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
2 F6 i: U2 x) Y- m4 HPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.! n; v$ {. P! r, |2 U2 f z0 B
Everything happens for a reason.
; Y# b9 z: \' v9 X. q: F% O* L0 O4 KNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.* \& D ? O) e& s# u9 K1 D
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
& C3 b! z% @/ w1 v8 z/ R: U# z9 _and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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3 w) t* L- n- N% r! G5 kIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,8 o: Q% c( ^7 W* f* E c5 ^
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,* E6 p1 G7 b# [# B! [
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
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and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.: [# L# S& F1 F5 q
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,+ f) _ M( G# t( Z, p8 R
Try to love them back unconditionally,; Y5 n) r+ N+ |5 I D$ K
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
4 x" V1 w2 p; jthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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; m ^! p7 D0 g4 f, mThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,( x( d8 n9 \6 D R" h1 @% j
! S* C- C" Q' G6 f d9 Jand a time to every purpose under the sun.
2 u: n. k$ h/ a4 g, U/ f! JA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,4 o) @; B; T; j9 |' j" D
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."9 J$ t, S0 Z! X
God's grace is as a healing hand.) g5 o- Y4 f: B7 ^
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
9 D7 } Z' j8 `4 V @- I& o$ Ythe warm memories and love for those we have lost
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