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, x) ^: s, ~' D~SOMETIMES~# [ O/ ?& D8 h# ~, }
5 i. T! w, d9 Z: k, H- k6 NSometimes people come into your life
5 H. e0 l; ?# n1 w! [( j- Y, Tyou know right away that they were meant to be there,0 \* k5 Z. m; z* x7 [& M
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,' y, W8 L) w8 h: E- y; V* q
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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5 x7 o( G' J3 u0 GYou never know who these people may be
3 ?. C! i( I1 b rbut when you lock eyes with them,
H1 O; i; Y# @- @' L Jyou know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way4 s0 B5 u6 |4 j- `) I$ C' r
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!" Z; M5 j6 U. A- U, F
They are there for the reason you need them to be.+ T1 k6 y7 j, b' V) }6 X
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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" O: o; Z/ _. z' RThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. A: j! R# F# \5 `4 N) l
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
- E: p3 C5 m# eSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.( L6 D# ]9 X9 C" R
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5 G4 @$ a% v/ x+ ?What we must realize is that our need has been met,
2 X/ W( w$ U! f! @" T: ~5 Four desire fulfilled, their work is done.
7 C/ ~( }1 D2 s/ T7 T2 Q( U" k. OThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
- J. l6 J& L+ Z7 JAnd now it is time for you to move on.7 Y0 [+ }* y- h7 W9 I+ T& P \
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
4 K- h) J8 C0 y5 \3 @3 ?Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
7 ]2 n# x+ D3 `# PThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
0 A; z/ R. R6 u4 y$ b! FThey may teach you something you have never done.9 H- B1 B3 X( P9 c* j! B
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
O; k) ]0 N0 q* G$ `% f" c8 cBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦- X [! o/ `- G z8 Z. A
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i0 p, q) `1 K. ZLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:( S4 m' H6 R% B R4 k/ ]
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,' t7 _' V; Z. V: y' K' ?# K
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
! O" v5 z' x* O0 W9 h% R: sEverything happens for a reason.& ~7 x: f I. p8 m# J7 X0 m1 c
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.' O! u+ Q! C5 e
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,6 y; d2 x% W- O* C6 [! i l
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.) N9 l# a5 ^5 C8 p; Q4 k0 p5 h# n9 Y, p
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,! l5 V0 e, @3 F; l$ g
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,- s, |: L0 r' r& K$ Q
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
1 F" h( O- A% _5 @$ Y1 x; T- G1 c0 Wfor they have helped you learn about trust) S, j, F1 J" k3 f
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
7 H7 p4 @0 j- t* @! |3 VIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,# V$ H* R) J( S# b- Q5 T
Try to love them back unconditionally,
& B/ E# u# D `not only because they love you, but because in a way,. U* Y \, C; Y
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.: ]3 m$ I3 x! C# h$ D. v7 u
2 U9 j( m8 r( Q8 Y' w0 l, I pThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,9 ?( B0 s8 b& V, N7 h/ K) R
* @. k/ Q6 U: L" H& Xand a time to every purpose under the sun.
! W! v4 S. M# JA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
" w' L; O& T4 e/ J/ F# g" D' Wand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."7 k) `4 d3 d, k/ Z
God's grace is as a healing hand.
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will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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