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Sometimes people come into your life
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to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,+ T5 L& Q$ x" |2 }. A9 X
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be
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you know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
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Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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9 e# a- M, k/ ^% NThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
# X6 Y% j |+ A5 }0 L& dSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
; z1 r, Z# O+ Q G; USometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
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The prayer you sent up has been answered.! K: O2 K$ T) U2 m% c
And now it is time for you to move on.
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( V! g: e# L' U% I1 vThen people come into your life for a REASON
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! n4 L& J( X; S8 f' DThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.; @9 B0 n& v4 l1 u" h) r. F- h/ m
They may teach you something you have never done.; ^7 a1 t2 V" }* Y s
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.: _' H: u& x6 s
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦/ [0 Z8 f& H& G7 E' L" ~0 f0 n
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. K( k7 N! ~ n2 E/ o4 w x" MLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:. Z1 Q+ j1 c* S$ k% L, T) t
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,9 G$ e! ^9 B& l' d6 x3 H) M
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
4 C* r% b% L4 g; }" QEverything happens for a reason.
- d* p y/ I; S6 u5 k5 M/ v KNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.. Q$ }! x+ [/ a6 e3 ]6 Y Q1 q
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,/ W9 A' @5 I+ e3 M6 p: c( p
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.% x# d6 p$ F# K8 G+ P, Z% b
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,- A* z6 i+ G5 `
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,, K' Q. T8 n8 ? b. `
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
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3 L2 e# f; j5 K- N8 jIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,
; |* c4 ^3 p! D2 k: K* I( iTry to love them back unconditionally,( Q4 K! e8 m8 E( }/ K9 P5 s9 B( e7 Q
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,5 b4 L& t( [$ c1 u7 B* d3 o
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
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! K; u% ^4 h& C( q n Gand a time to pluck up that which is planted...") ?3 c# n) D) O- Y5 t' r# P
God's grace is as a healing hand.5 C, c) i/ {7 X8 w O0 ?( U% M& i
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
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