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Sometimes people come into your life
% I. g+ w+ _5 m: i) ?you know right away that they were meant to be there,
9 t+ K' Y8 _" x0 l( _' @to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
. D% |1 @8 @- oor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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9 W! e9 q; s- m T1 j, AYou never know who these people may be$ R' e+ v; ]1 g3 Y3 u
but when you lock eyes with them,
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9 S) I) d9 u" ]7 A8 @They will affect your life in some profound way9 e" w; S- f; l4 a% i/ @; D
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!, ]9 u4 G5 j5 D. R
They are there for the reason you need them to be.6 N& m9 G- {8 u+ C0 t5 ~/ I
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,/ X9 S1 T4 s0 C; {& Y0 z7 Y' V
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.$ K% E1 J" r0 t( z# s
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.6 ]2 l" H( Y$ Q A
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,- S* o1 z5 H) z+ h6 m# X
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.8 M$ s9 q, H6 ?
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
. Q4 D2 @9 k7 i$ jAnd now it is time for you to move on.( C, ]! U" S1 P- Q& p; Y
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7 y5 N$ s5 {: f; v kThen people come into your life for a REASON
e& ~- p7 C( ?+ a% v& @Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
8 U* U# \: ^4 d1 ?0 ]+ vThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
5 O- U( }8 q6 I ^( \They may teach you something you have never done.
; Q: M, t Y4 G! l6 C3 FThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
: D* F8 Z1 h& y- GBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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. i/ S/ S3 v* gLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:" q! e0 O) c5 P% m4 n
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
# O6 t! s2 d2 b& iPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.) K9 q- C" H# `& ]: N; R
Everything happens for a reason.
, a8 Y% a" E7 I; g* X; i8 }Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
6 v Z3 A' T0 \; z% VIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,) q; F T3 ] C- A. j. v
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.5 ~- }# h! m T
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,2 F" [0 j' ]2 [! |) W: J# v
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
7 A/ Q# V1 Z& ~# E) QIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them," P+ l. H. b( r7 r' I7 q* S
for they have helped you learn about trust3 @ W: E2 r7 R4 k
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
, V' g- h. A4 x3 eIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,! k# S7 b. A* n# s J: J0 m! q3 O' [3 @
Try to love them back unconditionally,
9 `6 G+ c/ W {9 R7 c0 q hnot only because they love you, but because in a way,
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,0 q' ^% Y+ ?9 x6 O# C; c& t
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
) r( j. _! }! I j& M/ z, rA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
2 `9 I! a2 v: W8 Y& z8 w7 Fand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
" O+ @3 G' l+ M( d2 K: g8 vGod's grace is as a healing hand.1 H4 N. I/ L @6 q
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
* v/ z8 ], W& f2 Y2 n9 f. c, q8 wthe warm memories and love for those we have lost
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