Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes
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6 [7 w5 q" p! t0 u" a  jWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

0 B+ U6 b- U% v: E- t' y8 w2 j+ g1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
+ S/ ~8 q; }; J$ VTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.

, T$ D. p: K' c2.        Speak up when she’s good
! p) ^2 ?$ T4 }% iIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.

3.        Stay one step ahead
0 o3 F3 u% H5 ?' v3 _6 uLimit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
From no to yes

6 x* M* @' D2 k  eWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

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柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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