Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes
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7 b8 O8 X, o  t) F3 bWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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7 r2 d8 Q, H9 C! X! K/ U1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
) K0 Q; d6 Y, b* L- f( M  Y5 bTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.
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2.        Speak up when she’s good
& M1 R) |7 Y8 V7 k! C( `6 mIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.
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& j) h+ s, i! {1 J3 d6 Y2 X3.        Stay one step ahead
Limit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
From no to yes

; a; u5 h, Y0 q6 v* K2 bWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
: @: M, K  D( x6 l3 B1 I4 ^: B8 gTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

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柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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