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THE STENCH OF HATRED
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( f7 H0 {; t: }' J: U+ xA kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game. 6 k- v, f$ D" J' h/ H+ {) ^
4 y: c- Q( A, V @8 _The teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic ' w" C5 I$ u' W4 B1 N( r
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bag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name % L8 X5 Y: r" \6 J4 I3 W4 v; }/ S
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of a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that
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3 N$ B& x' |. M0 h4 Xa child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number
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1 }+ h" Z5 K+ n" x! I: @5 J6 f3 cof people he/she hates. 8 g4 `. S8 _ H; _" I0 I& Q
& V$ S3 \( t* s1 j* PSo when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with
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the name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some
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3 while some up to 5 potatoes.
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The teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes
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in the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week. & b5 y! Z* ]6 _5 m T
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Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain
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due to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides,
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- f, R- l) \$ f4 C7 s* E/ jthose having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1 . E) D- t/ [% i
* z- I5 u! T; `! `3 {3 V2 Iweek, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended. 8 y3 j7 Y. N8 J$ H$ d4 j6 `
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The teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes % _7 J. a4 ~( j5 f3 _
" l. M$ j! R0 V/ l2 Xwith you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and
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started complaining of the trouble that they had to go through
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E$ |: P. p5 ^( E- p# qhaving to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go. , d: |5 [0 K0 l; F! E
( [- w9 W: {; ]$ o- fThen the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game. 3 p1 i# H: H D0 h' P
# B3 B9 {0 O8 \# WThe teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry
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your hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred 8 t# } Y; j/ A" K) J. @, f
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will contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever
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you go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just
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in your heart for your lifetime???" / p" J6 k( |5 ?. S9 ?
6 h# |; S! a' v- }8 R9 D A"Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else;
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it is something you do for yourself. 4 ?7 O8 }" R. K" R* V" C/ N
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Give yourself the gift of forgiveness" |
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