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发表于 2004-10-29 04:51 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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THE STENCH OF HATRED 5 [+ V+ o# L% `2 _
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A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game.
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; {% i/ E* A9 k. z  i* EThe teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic
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+ O" a. s. ~; W0 S, I! [0 y1 Qbag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name ( b! \- O6 R4 T) L0 }. t! w

2 r9 z  t4 b3 x: o& qof a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that
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& R" y8 w* c2 ?. ba child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number
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of people he/she hates. " x" X! T1 e6 C, a  {. ]

( T$ W1 v2 c3 a8 m( wSo when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with 5 P( j+ i  `/ [: F

, X" w# m% O4 p' wthe name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some * R2 ]7 B6 N* l- M* B% p! i8 F$ Y

$ Q/ Y& M3 ~" ~' u2 Z/ I+ j3 while some up to 5 potatoes.
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The teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes / n  g, F1 p- C8 S9 W, ?& ]
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in the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week. 5 G( H% `' Q# |$ r! {) S6 Z

/ ]- X7 f7 o. T/ GDays after days passed by, and the children started to complain
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' m; N; l4 f4 L  w  t4 [6 [& \due to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides,
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those having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1 8 w2 }, ~' P( M$ R; I2 [" k$ [2 d
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week, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended.
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The teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes
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$ w+ o0 Q# x0 k+ q0 G: X) ?8 ywith you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and ! P# c2 L0 L8 w: c3 O3 X: v/ t

8 q3 U$ S3 [! x+ Q1 M) O8 `5 k" Rstarted complaining of the trouble that they had to go through
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" T7 n; i! d# e- o8 N! L6 K8 Jhaving to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go.
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# Z" p/ I1 D- z( v! LThen the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game. 5 o% `: T* J. A5 W
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The teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry
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your hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred 9 H* g* H/ E7 Q$ {
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will contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever ( O! x9 W( u* M4 M

5 g' Q( \) X3 Q$ _you go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just
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% l* [- M3 m  z7 j6 J& C. N# n, b& S4 ^1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred
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$ [7 \/ {/ j8 G8 O9 Nin your heart for your lifetime???"
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. Y2 e! Y4 V( |$ v( a2 q+ A) U"Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else; : e& \7 }5 {# T0 u( z( R
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it is something you do for yourself. + W7 E  }5 L3 p4 G5 a5 J4 f

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发表于 2004-11-1 05:10 | 显示全部楼层
The implied meaning is simple but profound.
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