买外一个叫做sympathy card 写上: Dear Susan. I am so sorry for your loss. You and John were both so close to me and my family. Please feel free to let me know if I can help with anything. Take care. Love Sam. ; T* Q; f+ X# S. P! ^ # H: A9 c6 @2 b8 s不送钱,鲜花一般送在入土的墓地里。4 [) i5 ~* P: Q9 x