好心提醒同事工作中的一个小问题,他的回答是:这有什么,就算错了,也不至于被开除6 j7 I- C) b% m
当时想回应:算我多事,7 m! u3 K O! F5 B( \" A `& r$ t+ ?
可不会说。 0 B: m; ~/ G0 y7 M X! Q6 A/ h , M: T8 L! r5 Y9 V) A- ccan anyone pls help me with this? ) n# f* q! ]1 ]" ?6 L" v* v 6 x, m. \* h3 N$ ~1 Jand btw, the wechat code in other topic is expired, can anyone provide me another one pls?, B ?, D% X' ~4 n
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thx.
can't use QQ at work, at home? don't even have time to use QQ. 8 t2 w) O8 ?" E; D# E! |/ l$ Breally prefer wechat, so whenever I have an english question, ask and get help instantly ( wish) & ~) a) ^2 b9 y9 W9 a8 n! } " V1 ?% a( A q Z5 {8 S+ L Nthank u for all response, still looking for more specific answer.
永远的末班车 发表于 2016-2-2 12:51 ( j% _2 k" o( }4 ?2 Tcan't use QQ at work, at home? don't even have time to use QQ. 9 x5 C/ R0 `* B2 g, l6 R. |really prefer wechat, so whenever I ...
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在工作中和日常生活中,除非被要求,指出别人的错误相当于说you are an idiot!对方很生气,后果很严重。所以你的同事才会变得defensive。即使上级对下级也都是很客气的。当然如果别人侵犯你了,那要另当别论。
newelec 发表于 2016-2-2 14:03 " d( J, A2 J. |: N2 J% l- g9 M在工作中和日常生活中,除非被要求,指出别人的错误相当于说you are an idiot!对方很生气,后果很严重。 ...
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我不明白为什么会有这种观点,如果是我,感激还不及呢,不说今后不再犯同样的错,何况我之所以指出他的错,是因为这事件直接联系到Manager.8 b9 B. f# }4 m7 x4 @% L
我还以为他会感谢我,可能他正是有这种观念,所以才那样回答我。% W3 q) ~+ }0 Q0 O
Well,不认为每个人都会feel being offended, $ O. p8 m) v8 f' p) [
只是通过沟通熟悉每个人的风格吧。