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I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro. : i0 b6 |4 L$ n3 V2 u
He has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money 5 ?2 ?6 D/ }; k( ]4 r n$ t e
for youth at risk programs. + r2 O) q( }6 S3 }& ?9 |
. M" L5 K2 V' g' @: ?% tThe last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you
- A, w" v" C) p* dwhy I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young : m- F$ Z. `9 O' V; _ Y9 e M
man who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable J& T+ V* T! G0 k9 O0 p @
to stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training
- h8 W$ @" |% _$ b1 D6 [5 Q+ o/ o6 Lhorses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted.
( H! z- D# z" D; B TWhen he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted
: F% [7 A; v7 Y& g9 a' xto be and do when he grew up. ' N3 n9 r3 _ e# R; K2 R) ?
9 Z$ v% B) d+ S2 T3 O( z1 u'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday
* M8 B3 J) {3 f* ^/ `owning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even
2 m& G0 R; q- L: ddrew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings,
0 z \1 L, B# G2 J; X, v) ?2 Fthe stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot , z: E1 x6 ]; h
house that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch.
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. [9 \, r* Z n. ^9 {0 }) D'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he
M+ @. b9 m, a1 s( ]9 p4 phanded it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back. 3 t, K0 b0 ~6 D- r# b
On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after " D& t# f6 E' _, r! a) F
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: {" t( I5 g$ F; _7 ~" d$ U'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked, ' J4 \1 p" X% H( M% ^
`Why did I receive an F?' 2 u. X7 q* q7 ~0 Q# i$ y, M) f
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'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you. , J' A. q) I$ y" v
You have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources.
. q1 z1 O8 g* o2 H% lOwning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land.
/ n' x6 P8 f9 c4 c% ^. iYou have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to
; z, Y' ~7 i7 L, r/ X- Gpay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher % P5 A5 A. {- M- Y3 C
added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will
: U" k3 |' [2 K% J$ W7 ireconsider your grade.’ * f/ i5 u" R- ]' ?( J9 @
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'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father 9 L0 O' P. I& l; A
what he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your
9 V% N( t) i5 v% \/ n8 jown mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for
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'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same
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4 e+ h1 I* r+ ~/ }9 f$ xMonty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story
; N- q' @3 ~' y* d ]$ [because you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of . T9 y$ E ~2 ]( w# h: L& G- r
my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the * W) D. N& z) Z- d/ [- h/ t
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago ! ^7 P8 E/ C* B4 E2 {3 Y: Z
that same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.'
: [" n, u; k; h) o# R5 sWhen the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this
; k5 [3 k: j1 ?now. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During ( t, T" _. D! C5 V! c- R1 w
those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption % d; ?( e6 C! w' I
not to give up on yours.’' 7 e* b( F& d$ v. ?( Y3 o- z6 n
- O! j; }: s rDon't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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