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( @- k5 h2 g+ y# R+ uHow to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"8 M& N* K- i: b8 r9 F s
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Fine.
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" F( u8 b3 f+ d! |9 EThis is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.& F2 v4 r$ `% g) x: [6 D7 Y/ t
. A k( C/ P& z' z- z* q% z; `" LNot bad.3 P$ h+ p9 \$ E& [9 R6 g6 V
8 B/ q# q1 ?/ r9 u- e" K5 j$ IThis is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".& h3 ^; c! I* |. S, V0 j% e" w* R
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Fine, thanks.
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0 R5 G! X! N5 K6 f8 [This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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0 y4 @6 J. _! T6 O; k) Y; z- r# JVery well, thanks.
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( x! m' ~' q- v/ i; ^A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.6 s2 t* x6 L' c. ?8 U) Q6 a3 u
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Pretty good.
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If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.
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( Z, q# {0 }9 I) ?" K0 IGreat! How are you doing?
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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6 h$ h1 ?- \6 j1 kI'm hanging in there.
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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I've been better.2 F( t7 }+ l, P: s
& N! t& @. U* Q- J/ aPeople usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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! {0 x+ q( |7 p$ K4 Y9 z7 KA: How are you?8 ^: m# H B' {: E! J
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A: What's wrong?
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7 {) |4 J+ Z$ c( H, |# UHow's it going?! _& z. O- l) m9 F
This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.; z$ l9 l8 A1 s0 K V. |+ @; {
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?") h U2 }+ q E
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It's going well.
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. 8 b8 c& F8 r( S" y+ k
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What's up?5 O& ] D5 t D4 H0 u
This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:4 V9 S: Y6 E2 X& C" w* r
0 B! I1 m, T4 @7 n- p u& [Nothing much.
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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Not a lot.
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$ Z1 M6 r6 `7 HThis is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.+ D- @0 d: ?, P8 i
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& v+ o7 G3 z! W+ n7 t/ VThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.
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- k$ U$ U) j) @' F$ S& VOh, just the usual.; A. J; T9 C4 Y
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4 c7 I9 t6 k/ mJust the same old same old.
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8 o7 X7 G; K! h4 V! u6 f2 @/ g7 DThis phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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& b- u: g) \0 ^1 l; xOh gosh, all kinds of stuff!4 l4 U+ H1 m2 ?7 D4 z
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You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.( ~) I9 F) c* {0 O
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This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.' w. b$ {: E. R* Y P6 R
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