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* ~0 j+ z1 e# F' n! ~" D7 LHow to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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# {4 ?4 H: \1 ^1 \There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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& I8 s G7 v8 P; d+ D: h6 q6 R" AYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"2 b2 F# O1 J7 \) z+ i% c
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Fine.
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.) x$ ~+ V) x- Y# |& q! ^# S6 F
8 b3 z4 `- p3 U" sNot bad.
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".1 X @ }; _9 a- ?4 I. S. Q
. r$ h1 d7 K% B$ \' s- MFine, thanks.% |5 ^& C. l: R$ G/ t9 K
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.$ _- S6 u* S: k c8 E
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Very well, thanks.0 Z) v* h; U. N! H$ L* }
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.# v9 a# _# K* x1 m; C, V
: S% D# o' V/ J- ]+ h& W F5 iPretty good.
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If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.
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$ W9 r$ c1 ], b5 _9 {; ]/ ^+ ], tGreat! How are you doing?
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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I'm hanging in there.
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9 p, R2 z& i) F/ C! Y/ {1 z {3 D1 b3 FThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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1 F* S9 c3 Z0 Q# P6 d9 |% F% qI've been better.( V& u! N$ W/ D9 d4 t
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:& u& s; j4 S `8 N2 F9 o6 j; L+ H
8 W2 T E% D; f {A: How are you?
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+ h! }7 u$ L" S( y! G+ h# L/ fB: I've been better.
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A: What's wrong?; C5 P W2 X/ r# r3 q
" P. u. t- h5 PB: I just found out that I'm being laid off.& d9 Y* q3 v# r. |5 E* Z! S, G
. N! W; ?" Q0 R) d7 P1 @% N8 U9 r' YHow's it going?
8 e) k) ^8 s8 r8 m4 P# F2 XThis question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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6 K6 x0 v$ l6 V3 l. g+ vHere's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"8 h1 m4 {- d' A' m. p$ @6 X$ Y
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It's going well.
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5 i! N, L, u) ^- n# j0 b3 zThis is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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3 F, W* |4 z# ?& [5 {This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."# Z" Q0 A" v/ W" x/ r
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: b; j& p5 }: |2 C' h. Z" e* ~5 XThis is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.3 A+ h( Z/ c; ]) J M; J" N" {4 S
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Nothing.9 s" |2 U9 T, ]
: I- ~# r6 Z4 y% Y( CThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.
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Oh, just the usual.4 K" h( j8 N9 B7 I# G
) [ W/ r3 I) G6 C- r4 J0 s0 cAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.& W* H9 l1 f6 O4 ]# |
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Just the same old same old.
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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) _# r# i7 l2 y7 A% A' x; a7 GOh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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0 h, v1 |7 Y# Z% N9 yYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.* u5 Q8 B; e4 [0 r
6 Z. c3 `7 R0 p+ bWhat's happening?: C# h& f; s* d. i6 D! z4 Q
This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way., m6 u, D: E" u2 F% \; P" m
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