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<转帖>孩子是因你而来,不是为你而来

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鲜花(1010) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-2-28 16:29 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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本帖最后由 秀色可餐 于 2014-2-28 16:34 编辑 " k- b, m% g- F
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今天偶然看到这首纪伯伦的诗,觉得很好,贴出来和大家一起分享
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On Children4 }/ v& h5 i2 Q% J. M! ?  L
Kahlil Gibran1 V# R6 @% Q8 s2 s! f7 u, Q
Your children are not your children.- h2 i' }) B0 @. z$ v) N
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.  p6 J6 I  }6 D. W, n2 j4 Z
They come through you but not from you,
- p2 q% r$ g/ \) a" vAnd though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
& A: b$ ^3 {$ ]1 d3 iYou may give them your love but not your thoughts,, K6 q" W. n2 w7 _  k7 B" E8 m
For they have their own thoughts.
+ U3 v: [5 u8 C! P2 lYou may house their bodies but not their souls,
! v6 B: I' b% @0 K1 j* WFor their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
  q( {/ m5 v# Z% h; L3 ~3 Zwhich you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
( N8 z. ]( W0 ]  a1 r6 A4 Q  T" RYou may strive to be like them,& M0 {" l; R+ n8 q/ l& A
but seek not to make them like you.
7 t, @" j+ g  W# z* Z% yFor life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
! y# G7 T* F' b/ r' AYou are the bows from which your children
4 Q$ ]) h7 u# Mas living arrows are sent forth.& u) l! X& N* M/ l' c) Y
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,
" x5 f+ J+ T% Band He bends you with His might  I/ A- p. H# ^/ _
that His arrows may go swift and far.
; ~( e2 ?" o& h2 ULet your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;
+ t( `" p7 f, {For even as He loves the arrow that flies,
9 T7 m; M& i5 S0 k9 e& bso He loves also the bow that is stable.
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鲜花(1010) 鸡蛋(1)
 楼主| 发表于 2014-2-28 16:36 | 显示全部楼层
下面是中文翻译,可能不是很贴切。当你真正体会到其中的涵义时,便会发现其中“爱”、“放手”、“分清责任”、“信任”、“尊重”、“正向信念”这些家庭教育的真谛都包含其中。/ d: h/ k- C9 x1 e5 c% w

4 ]7 c2 T  [! l8 P" d你的子女,其实不是你的子女。
/ q! i6 I4 R  y) O/ W他们是生命对于自身渴望而诞生的孩子。
2 G3 w1 [, B0 {他们借助你来到这世界,却非因你而来。
! A) u$ |  R7 Z! n: I' l- R4 B6 U他们在你身旁,却并不属于你。7 }" _7 N0 O/ l$ U7 \4 ]+ R. u9 m
你可以给予他们的是你的爱,却不是你的思想,; x* a+ J. b0 R! N* E# T
因为他们有自己的思想。! U& Y) B5 A2 s. j
你可以庇护的是他们的身体,却不是他们的灵魂,
; ~6 v' g9 n. S% }' q因为他们的灵魂属于明天,属于你做梦都无法到达的明天,
5 {  q0 @5 j! z! J, L1 i  z$ y+ Z你可以拚尽全力,变得像他们一样,
( R, R$ g$ c$ L) ^& P4 {6 f2 ~却不要让他们变得和你一样,
% M( M7 R/ u% f8 X因为生命不会后退,也不在过去停留。! F+ c9 y' h& n) M& E# x1 R  o
你是弓,儿女是从你那里射出的箭。
" |1 [% V" m& _! j. f- d弓箭手望着未来之路上的箭靶,
: u) A! L6 E3 S0 M7 z9 r5 a; p它用尽力气将你拉开,使他的箭射得又快又远。9 R; q: \1 t+ j% l: a- v3 K* y+ F
怀着快乐的心情,在弓箭手的手中弯曲吧,+ X/ Q$ I( w+ l2 Q8 a- A
因为他爱一路飞翔的箭,也爱无比稳定的弓。
鲜花(168) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-2-28 19:04 | 显示全部楼层
太美了,而且句句精辟深刻!
鲜花(8) 鸡蛋(0)
发表于 2014-3-1 20:03 | 显示全部楼层
老杨团队 追求完美
体会体会,非常有理
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鲜花(172) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-3-1 21:14 | 显示全部楼层
真是好文,谢谢分享!!!
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