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<转帖>孩子是因你而来,不是为你而来

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鲜花(1010) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-2-28 16:29 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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本帖最后由 秀色可餐 于 2014-2-28 16:34 编辑
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今天偶然看到这首纪伯伦的诗,觉得很好,贴出来和大家一起分享
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8 W# T8 D; _3 Y4 a7 f; AOn Children. {+ i* q* \0 w2 I( u+ p# X
Kahlil Gibran( a/ r7 q/ u) k1 C  P
Your children are not your children.( b5 T& b& P/ o5 y
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.  b6 P  b. }6 [8 c2 P; F6 r1 {
They come through you but not from you,
% a: u' [  L/ L4 m* d& dAnd though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
9 o" Q3 h7 V1 v! fYou may give them your love but not your thoughts,
8 P7 a8 y* l/ d/ A1 rFor they have their own thoughts.. W  X7 P3 Y6 ]0 B
You may house their bodies but not their souls,/ p$ U/ t1 M: ]* c
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,& e) l) c% Z. k7 k# y- _: a
which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.' f6 a! y9 x8 c+ m7 X6 D. v
You may strive to be like them,) ~7 d0 |& R% J5 Y! l
but seek not to make them like you.
3 R1 B, _/ B2 sFor life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
4 O! C8 s2 d$ b/ V  {2 U3 Q  xYou are the bows from which your children
, _# H4 o% F# V- }: mas living arrows are sent forth.
/ _2 a( l7 D# A9 x% f- f4 SThe archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,5 ?. d* K) P7 g8 K% i
and He bends you with His might* b7 h- R* L" A" }+ ^
that His arrows may go swift and far.
# {+ E8 y5 Q5 m; N1 j5 T8 XLet your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;
4 ~, i1 g0 `( r6 f0 UFor even as He loves the arrow that flies,
; p8 R; B4 |' i! a+ O2 M! Y% kso He loves also the bow that is stable.
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鲜花(1010) 鸡蛋(1)
 楼主| 发表于 2014-2-28 16:36 | 显示全部楼层
下面是中文翻译,可能不是很贴切。当你真正体会到其中的涵义时,便会发现其中“爱”、“放手”、“分清责任”、“信任”、“尊重”、“正向信念”这些家庭教育的真谛都包含其中。$ \6 E5 l+ |/ r+ e
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你的子女,其实不是你的子女。
* p' i3 M0 L, F7 x他们是生命对于自身渴望而诞生的孩子。  K% m8 g$ E# z2 |0 |" y. X
他们借助你来到这世界,却非因你而来。
' g! [+ R9 F' ~0 ?& S他们在你身旁,却并不属于你。+ ?6 [. c# k1 L& z( B0 x. D
你可以给予他们的是你的爱,却不是你的思想,
# L% @; q$ M# u/ Y; S因为他们有自己的思想。
+ S4 @: P% Z7 A! J/ i, |4 D你可以庇护的是他们的身体,却不是他们的灵魂,! o& ~4 Q3 T5 \' Z7 T
因为他们的灵魂属于明天,属于你做梦都无法到达的明天,
# p  {# P  S6 A你可以拚尽全力,变得像他们一样,
  V. K+ \  `! {8 g: C6 x" Q& ]却不要让他们变得和你一样,
6 s2 r( n& Q9 G  ]0 F7 |$ S因为生命不会后退,也不在过去停留。1 b. g3 Z# t. ?  {$ {/ J( d0 C$ w
你是弓,儿女是从你那里射出的箭。
5 \$ r; r8 p0 f# [弓箭手望着未来之路上的箭靶,
3 k. m2 o  A& F, r: @它用尽力气将你拉开,使他的箭射得又快又远。2 A1 l0 q: H4 w; K0 N
怀着快乐的心情,在弓箭手的手中弯曲吧,3 P& Y4 d. O- c6 }, x4 u4 b. u
因为他爱一路飞翔的箭,也爱无比稳定的弓。
鲜花(168) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-2-28 19:04 | 显示全部楼层
太美了,而且句句精辟深刻!
鲜花(8) 鸡蛋(0)
发表于 2014-3-1 20:03 | 显示全部楼层
老杨团队 追求完美
体会体会,非常有理
鲜花(172) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-3-1 21:14 | 显示全部楼层
真是好文,谢谢分享!!!
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