It's fine to have one.( Z$ o* I/ }* V& i# ?" W
It's fine to be proud of it.. k" g4 R7 ~7 N% H/ y6 X; F6 W0 G
But please don't whip it out in public and start waving it around, % f7 P; \7 L- s' h* Y( RAnd PLEASE don't try to shove it down my children's throats.