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~SOMETIMES~& X3 V4 D& S1 u* P% h; X6 e0 X( `
! ?6 H* J, g# C9 S+ x8 ZSometimes people come into your life
# X" ~4 F( Q2 b' \. D: i8 e" Gyou know right away that they were meant to be there,9 k/ o3 q6 k, `* H+ t
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
7 O4 w Y4 J4 r# c" B) z; y0 wor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.$ C6 z0 P. F! U9 ^1 o' }0 n- z, {
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" `, I8 P" S% X9 f9 P, X8 ?You never know who these people may be
5 T, W/ o. u/ O1 e! g' Kbut when you lock eyes with them,8 U6 n7 s ^' H( t' y. Z: S
you know at that very moment,
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# x3 L0 b# D3 ~7 f2 o! BThey will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
; Q |/ j: l {% ^They are there for the reason you need them to be.
2 R1 x' _* ^1 g. C' C& VThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.9 S {$ K; o+ O$ z3 W
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.6 ?- }- _. e l. ?$ a( |( u
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.9 R% |+ G9 p; g8 R b5 F
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
# R- I/ G8 f6 R5 _our desire fulfilled, their work is done.# ^& {# `: A5 |5 l" a# u
The prayer you sent up has been answered.: Y+ G+ h, ?& U
And now it is time for you to move on.
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2 ]9 I1 w+ ~, O$ eThen people come into your life for a REASON
: n" t) K9 ^3 i7 VBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.% v* l) q7 p% j! K0 n( n
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.# l: _% H8 {9 y
They may teach you something you have never done.: D2 g+ R0 k, k9 i( Q# O* e/ S6 X& T
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
0 ~( }! \7 k4 e, r% NBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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$ `4 [; t2 F k5 c' |8 ZLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:1 ?- |; M* {9 {0 q% S- t
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
6 i$ g; t. D: ?4 M( y9 `3 W1 PPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life., \0 J- }0 {; H# U! Q7 L% b
Everything happens for a reason.4 `8 J0 c) q6 j8 D* z! }, N
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
+ M/ v, B9 k1 pIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
6 b; I: u! b: R% rand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.3 h3 |. o; ]2 V" B6 G
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8 v3 @4 n4 w1 |- YIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,# ]. R) E2 H9 _% d3 B
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,+ q, u/ X% P I4 @3 S" ^
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
5 N, B0 V/ x2 G8 g/ Ffor they have helped you learn about trust
. T! i% d1 v; C* _0 g/ W1 uand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
" Y9 [ \& j! d! E- a* h uIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,' i; }) K! p" c4 G
Try to love them back unconditionally,# [# p" T7 ?0 ?% _) J
not only because they love you, but because in a way,6 e2 | T: z6 O. G7 ^
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,7 G6 u S/ Z$ K1 V5 n5 I2 r
# [1 q, v! r' u( nand a time to every purpose under the sun.
! y* A M4 i- t! IA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
- A$ o5 N' c. _- p1 p( nand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
! n8 \9 r! J! A9 q* V jGod's grace is as a healing hand.5 y+ a* a% F* S& d
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,% J. o: |' O" u' Z; w0 s
the warm memories and love for those we have lost! w _/ r R6 t% v- Z! G
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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