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- K, U. f2 O9 V- h1 CSometimes people come into your life
8 w- z( U+ F6 `; e% ?. S$ Syou know right away that they were meant to be there,; `! K1 K8 P+ |( [, O* H
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
/ [# o& B3 w1 H: h0 E* m( x: Z0 U9 G6 dor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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! x) L5 z7 r. ?# [5 ZYou never know who these people may be
. C8 i& Y! n/ y% y- [+ Kbut when you lock eyes with them,
( I+ p0 A7 s I$ W) Kyou know at that very moment,
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- R- w1 R9 \) ?% V2 W4 OThey will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
, {, M @) s* s% d+ KThey are there for the reason you need them to be.
m; h1 _, z5 S2 q' L# ?6 J. TThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time," Y( `# O: M4 `& V' P' c
& \7 D* A) L4 z. oThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.2 e, }+ S/ E" r' i' n% W* P
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.% l# U z+ s3 q. x) j
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.8 j; L. c e0 W! N% L
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,2 t* r: z$ e/ c/ |/ F/ m8 B
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
* H) ^- N/ m; y& YThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
) g1 u) r: H+ f. H. `And now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
3 J1 `1 i, f/ GBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.0 o) h! u0 i; _
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
$ A2 f% {) O, W7 P& C: ^They may teach you something you have never done.4 S% G; U; X; d# @7 I# _. ^) y
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy." F R3 v' Z, u9 \* b0 u
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦4 r' r, k- Z9 S, D
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
0 a0 Y; D# E" ?& L* JYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life, M0 P( R. l1 ~; x# J. R; X
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.* J. [' A6 L. c
Everything happens for a reason.
* c" z9 F) |& Q) vNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
$ D/ p s- {2 ^5 }Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
7 M+ {% z8 ^0 i6 d# }and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.; V" J+ o5 b( M# u
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0 i+ ?8 W# u9 d! j4 @( B' NIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,# Q& v0 ~# [' {3 x
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,9 a, u* q, c1 E+ c7 \! w! Y
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them, c5 g% ]' l3 {& O
for they have helped you learn about trust
; E+ c5 V$ y0 B: y8 c& f( yand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
3 W/ ?3 C$ @, O$ u9 r# A. ^If someone loves you, express your appreciation,/ h* B+ B2 m1 ^, E0 n
Try to love them back unconditionally,$ e5 k; C7 m8 t( c
not only because they love you, but because in a way,3 p6 t1 ^! \6 r! v7 f
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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, l- E& ]7 y5 b+ P' E6 WThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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( ]% }" C O ~0 w# @' [and a time to every purpose under the sun.2 M$ U9 M* x/ A* p Z& r' s+ a% L
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,: ]( P9 ]! {1 H: T; f6 X" K
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
' N3 _. B! f& Q4 \) bGod's grace is as a healing hand.
7 q# F n1 Q7 Y. {2 k7 hAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
! R6 C( r0 {8 w$ r/ Q& [the warm memories and love for those we have lost
8 D6 u1 S% A# e6 a owill remain always safe in our hearts. |
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