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~SOMETIMES~ ^. O& }1 }& B/ E% j
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Sometimes people come into your life
. w3 g+ \( W: T9 Byou know right away that they were meant to be there,
/ |: _: y$ t! ^7 S0 B, _8 nto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
5 I8 C' G. p% G$ F: U' Tor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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2 P0 T4 V0 b& t* y! W! vYou never know who these people may be
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you know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way/ p0 X2 }! y! u9 d: w0 a
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!3 t, }& I! t" w: z
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
1 i' b. n! Y* z6 n6 jThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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4 h) M4 k$ V; rThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
$ Z; Q5 m# ~( m5 PSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.1 L0 C' w) Q- x, c: B/ D m6 O
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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% B# ^* Q+ E, C6 g9 O4 P- t6 fWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,# [* m9 \6 P5 q; i: e
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.4 ^4 M) ^8 w% H8 y
The prayer you sent up has been answered.1 W6 |$ Z! T& N& L
And now it is time for you to move on., ~1 R+ h/ n) X2 P
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Then people come into your life for a REASON7 ^3 u& `/ G) `5 F) M
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.: ?1 u( N" M+ G
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.+ \1 R/ U3 ]4 F, c0 ?# d6 b
They may teach you something you have never done.
; c) j9 M2 L0 _* D9 O6 R1 |They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
+ Z1 j* c. {" J/ q6 i' ~5 g8 EBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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; p& g' K4 u+ ~. O5 }LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
) X% N' i% r( l6 `0 tYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,$ N1 i& Q( q. K( [2 r
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
( w& \6 y! d9 v! W; e; D# H" V% EEverything happens for a reason.) J7 k% W) b2 ` ?! g
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.% x- d4 u) r" c% R# E8 o0 w2 a8 g2 f
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,4 s8 O* j/ X$ q# t! Q
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
' D: e& \. l4 M+ ]If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
) G9 a) W; V1 Cfor they have helped you learn about trust% D3 K/ n/ _; E1 ]; u/ }9 ~
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
1 m8 k( w% `- w |( J, ?9 S+ BIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,: V* ?4 @) _! R- j1 b
Try to love them back unconditionally,
/ o0 h1 ]. @/ \: F w0 F0 N4 Jnot only because they love you, but because in a way,/ d5 S% Q8 l+ h- K, `1 P
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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6 x4 I* I2 S( K$ p# `7 @The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,/ c# q, [+ p& ]5 [3 ~: D
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
7 P4 l; E( g) p( UA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
" k) O( ^: [& l* O0 Pand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."1 G- t0 j& ~+ L9 }: e
God's grace is as a healing hand./ }3 n" s$ c: n. N1 k* M
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,& f% J4 Y6 A3 z- W% _* J
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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